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Old 07-13-2007   #23 (permalink)
dolfette
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Originally Posted by warmhorizon View Post
It took me a long time to get over it and it left me pretty fucked up because everybody I tried to tell said almost exactly the same thing as you are now so you'll excuse me if I'm not singing along to the sound of music now I'm hearing about how it was my fault and that I could've just "stopped being hard" for the five hundredth time!
I didn't mean to insult you, it's just a kind of iffy subject for me. Sorry.
it's more common than people imagine.

and i know, from the people i've talked to, that it can be just as traumatic for a man as for a woman.

*sigh*
nobody should be forced to justify their experience this way.