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Dude, I don't mean to sound harsh but this is the third thread I've read by you on this subject. You're upset. You're literally asking people to tell you how to get over it. The

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Old 06-09-2008   #16 (permalink)
erratic is offline

Dude, I don't mean to sound harsh but this is the third thread I've read by you on this subject. You're upset. You're literally asking people to tell you how to get over it. The problem is between you and yourself. You are the only person who can make you feel better. Right now you're making yourself feel worse. No one here can help you until you do.
 
Old 06-09-2008   #17 (permalink)
No_Strings is offline

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Originally Posted by senor rubirosa View Post
But it's done. That's the fundamental fact. And only a very small number of people who have been circumcised make any issue of it.
We choose our problems.
There is no wisdom in choosing a problem that has no solution.
I don't see the point in lamenting over it. To regret a decision? Yes. A decision that the individual had no hand in choosing doesn't mean the other outcome can't be longed for - I'm not surprised that the futility often manifests itself as anger.

Perhaps the wise are the only ones who try to solve the unsolvable; good comes from the quest, not the treasure. In this case? Petitions and activism.

If I have a child, and if that child is male, and if a circumcision is performed on him before he is 18 without the consent of myself or his mother, and without any medical necessity, then I will probably kill whoever performed it.
 
Old 06-09-2008   #18 (permalink)
Zayne is offline

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That's why he's going with the foreskin instead of the seven-color piss, so he can externalize his low self-esteem by comparing himself to other folks who do have the trait.
Very clear-minded stuff here. I have a feeling he's not going to get it. He should just fix it so he can get on with his life. Sew a piece of leather on it or something.
 
Old 06-09-2008   #19 (permalink)
senor rubirosa is offline

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Originally Posted by Macketeer View Post
I'm cut, I don't like it. How do I accept it?
You accept it by accepting it. This is not rocket science, Macketeer.
No one can tell you how to let something go.
You know perfectly well how to do that.
But now your identity is bound up in having this problem.
It supports your personal universe in a way.

There are certain things you can do.
You can let your mind see how good the motives were of those who did the procedure or allowed the procedure ... the physician and, presumably, your parents.
The physician wasn't trying to maim you. He bought into, I assume, the advantages that medical science at one time attributed to circumcision.
Your parents did the same.
With your parents, you might additionally remind yourself of all the other things they did for you, believing they were good ... and you can particularly focus on those that you appreciate.
And then you can reflect on just how great a disfigurement you actually suffered.
How do other circumcised men feel about their affliction? (I, personally, have never heard anyone complain about circumcision before, except on this website ... though I once knew someone who was apologetic about NOT being circumcised.)
You can force your mind, through this kind of exercise (which is Japanese, by the way), to see that what you see as an injury really isn't much of one, and that those who 'injured' you did so with total innocence.
You can also see that you receive far more support and help in this world than you're often apt to realize. (I don't mean just you ... this is true of everyone.)
And finally, you can give up this problem.
Trouble is, being human, you'll almost certainly find another one to put in its place.
 
Old 06-09-2008   #20 (permalink)
senor rubirosa is offline

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Perhaps the wise are the only ones who try to solve the unsolvable; good comes from the quest, not the treasure. In this case? Petitions and activism.
Well, it depends on what you mean by the unsolvable. You mean, a problem for which a solution isn't readily evident? Sure, it might be wise and beneficial to exert oneself. That's how inventions are made.
But when it's pretty sure that there really isn't any real solution, then the wise turn their attention elsewhere. (Now, I don't claim I always do this ... not at all. But when I don't, that's what I need to do.)
Now, maybe there is sort of a solution to circumcision. I don't know.
But the OP's question is, How do I accept the fact that my foreskin is no more?

I've got nothing against petitions and activism. But one doesn't have to be propelled into those by a gnawing feeling of personal injury.

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If I have a child, and if that child is male, and if a circumcision is performed on him before he is 18 without the consent of myself or his mother, and without any medical necessity, then I will probably kill whoever performed it.
I thought you and yuh brudders were born through parthenogenesis.
 
Old 06-09-2008   #21 (permalink)
mindseye is offline

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It's physically impossible to piss a rainbow, but physically possible to have a foreskin. Moreover, having a foreskin is the 'default' state of our penises.
If we bought this "no-alteration-of-the-default-state" argument, we'd have our babies born in the caul and leave their umbilical cords attached. And we'd never repair birth defects or separate conjoined twins "without their consent or consultation".

I support without reservation the right of parents to make medical decisions on behalf of their minor children, as informed by the medical knowledge and cultural values of the era in which the decision is made, and not by psychic divination of the values of a culture decades in the future.
 
Old 06-09-2008   #22 (permalink)
Sirkumsised is offline

What a load of crap. A fulfilled sex life is impossible if one is not circumcised - I know, I had a foreskin for some 25 years. My brother was circumcised, I was not until adult. Because of this difference we never got on. There should be no such differences between brothers or friends so ALL male babies should be circumcised as soon after birth as possible.
 
Old 06-09-2008   #23 (permalink)
mindseye is offline

Well, that's a different take on it. Anyone want to testify they weren't fulfilled until after their sex change, and therefore everyone yadda yadda yadda?
 
Old 06-09-2008   #24 (permalink)
SteveHd is online now

Sirkumsised, if you say "ALL male babies should be circumcised" then I will insist that ALL female babies likewise be circumcised [Sunna circumcision, a Type I FGM].

Equal treatment for all regardless of gender!
 
Old 06-09-2008   #25 (permalink)
herkimer snow is offline

"There should be no such difference between brothers and friends..." so no male newborns should be circumcised. None.
 
Old 06-09-2008   #26 (permalink)
senor rubirosa is offline

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If we bought this "no-alteration-of-the-default-state" argument, we'd have our babies born in the caul and leave their umbilical cords attached. And we'd never repair birth defects or separate conjoined twins "without their consent or consultation".
You're terrifying me into making no further posts.
 
Old 06-09-2008   #27 (permalink)
RandyL is offline
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If you're pissed about being circumcised, like me, do what I'm doing --- restore your foreskin!!!

I've been at it for 2 years now, kind of part time, and you only need to see my photos to see the results.

I've got my TLC Tugger on in a couple of the photos, and one of my soft cock in another.

When my dick is in my underwear and I pull it out to take a piss, the new "foreskin" partly covers the head, and it'll roll back partly while taking a piss.

I'm not fully restored yet, but I'm doing the only thing that can be done about it.

When I have kids someday, any boys WILL NOT be cut!
 
Old 06-09-2008   #28 (permalink)
SteveHd is online now

Randy, in one of his other threads he stated he's not interested in F/R.
 
Old 06-09-2008   #29 (permalink)
danerain is offline

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accept that if you weren't circumcised you wouldn't be who you are.
That reminds me of when my friend told me and one of my other damaged friend that they wish they could have done something to keep us from getting abused and assaulted as much as we had been. Our other friends pretty much agreed with her.

We said that if we hadn't been abused we wouldn't be the people we are now.

They said they still wished we hadn't been abused.
 
Old 06-09-2008   #30 (permalink)
mindseye is offline

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Originally Posted by senor rubirosa View Post
You're terrifying me into making no further posts.
Whoops, sorry. Let me snarkily add, then, that the "default" state of babies is unfertilized. ;)
 

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