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Originally Posted by killerb sounds to me like your friend wants something to happen but doesn't have the balls to be upfront about it... Well considering I didn't even have the balls to be up

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Old 06-12-2008   #16 (permalink)
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sounds to me like your friend wants something to happen but doesn't have the balls to be upfront about it...
Well considering I didn't even have the balls to be up front about it and I was very open to the possibility of something happening, I would hardly expect him to. Which leads me to the next point.

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I think a lot of guys have had similar experiences in their late teens/ early twenties or so....Seems like it is more of a time of life when you do road trips and are comfortable sleeping in the same bed with another man. I had two similar experiences to yours. One was a friend in college and there were three of us. We shared a bed and the other guy had the single. Throughout the night he would lightly graze my cock or balls with a hand or his knee. I instantly got hard and was awake. These stories where a guy has full on oral sex and is asleep seems bizarre to me. If someone touches my cock in the middle of the night I am awake then. In any case, it was almost every night of that trip that I felt his hand on me. I never reciprocated but enjoyed it. I must have since I was so hard. We never talked about it. I think if we had we both would have denied it at all and probably gotten angry. It was one of those things you stay quiet about.
It seems like an unwritten rule, just looking to know your thoughts on why you think that is? We both haven't said anything about it, but I'm wondering if there's just too much uncertainty and ambiguity that one is too afraid to say anything incase the other rejects it/ gets angry. It's kinda sad, I think it's safe to say we are/were both curious and in the end, we're only denying ourselves an opertunity to explore...
 
Old 06-13-2008   #17 (permalink)
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Well considering I didn't even have the balls to be up front about it and I was very open to the possibility of something happening, I would hardly expect him to. Which leads me to the next point.



It seems like an unwritten rule, just looking to know your thoughts on why you think that is? We both haven't said anything about it, but I'm wondering if there's just too much uncertainty and ambiguity that one is too afraid to say anything incase the other rejects it/ gets angry. It's kinda sad, I think it's safe to say we are/were both curious and in the end, we're only denying ourselves an opertunity to explore...

the answer to that question is pretty short & sweet - lots of guys are curious or maybe even KNOW what they want, but don't want to be labeled as gay so they will deny their feelings as much as they can...
 

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