I've had a couple of fantastic, very-fondly-rememberedlovers in the past who were both between the 3" and 4" mark; neither of them was in the least self-conscious, and so things were just wonderful, in particular

As you'll see, that ends half-way through a sentence, but as I describe myself at LPSG as being only 90% gay, I had to edit out the final 10% of my reply.