Oral or Penetration?

With penetrative sex I'm in control. With oral, I'm not. I'm at the mercy of whatever skill (or lack thereof) the other person (male or female) has. I have a LOT of trouble reaching orgasm with oral, and as it goes on and on without feeling like it's building...well, you lose the mood.

I voted for penetration because there is more than one thing to penetrate lol . But I just can't imagine penetrative sex without first starting off with oral.

Hell both of us are great at oral but would toss it out if it meant we could have the sex. 5 minutes of intense french kissing...especially in the shower...would render some mindblowing sex.

Feed me

I voted penetration.

Maybe that's why I'm never that enthused by getting a blowjob. I'd really much rather fuck ass.

But there are few pleasures dearer to me than having a certain type of penis in my mouth...

ARGH!

I voted for penetrative sex because we have gone so long without it, we can try to catch up some now that we are working more on dilation, etc. Oral sex is great and maybe if she could deep throat I would have chosen that.

Well since I feel I have to plan for long term and take into account that when I hit 80, penetration may cause me to throw out my hip or something.

So I'm going to play it safe and say Oral.

She's wondering the same thing herself! lol

I want the half that eats...

Penetration

Hmmm - I love to fuck and suck. So penetration for topping, oral for bottoming.

penetration. most girls can't fit my dick in their mouths.