For gay guys there.... a question

A friend of mine who is gay, told me about a married man who used to visit him regularly to get serviced (blowjob). They were getting together for over a year, when my friend started getting this guy into anal playing. He went from tongue licking to dildos until he finally convinced him to be penetrated by him.
This guy, according to my friend, had never been bottom and my gay friend actually "deflowered" him.
Psychologically, is there a sense of overpowering for a gay guy who fucks a straight man?, or is it just another ass to fuck?.

both i guess. some might have a fish for fucking str8 men, while others don't care and it's just sex to them,. and anyway, isn't it usually the other way around? the str8 guy fucking the gay dude? rather werid if you ask me..

why not just ask your friend for his opinion? and why are you curious anyway? ;)

I can respond only in my case.... I "deflowered" two straight guys in my life. Neither were for a sense of overpowering the guys. To be perfectly honest, I felt a great sense of gratitude that they trusted me enough to share their deepest secret/desire and knew that I wouldn't gossip! Both times were absolutely beautiful experiences!!!

Some wish to deflower, man or woman. A virgin is not something you run across every day, so I suspect that some are on the "prowl" for just that, a virgin. Other's are satisfied with whoever, and are much more less into prowling.

With that said, I wouldn't doubt that if you were a homosexual male and you deflowered a straight guy, that it would be a bit of empowerment. Maybe not consciously, but subconsciously you are "turning" heterosexuals in your favor by deflowering them. After all, it seems to me (a hetero that the people most afraid of gay guys is straight guys. Most women don't care, or enjoy a gay man's presence). So I can see it as being empowering in that sense... But, who knows. Maybe he feels "screwed" by the straight community so now he is screwing them??? (sorry, that was bad)

With that said, I don't see anything wrong with being anally stimulated as I've been doing it for years, and I'm only 26... However, I am kind of questioning if this "straight" guy was really straight in the first place. Sounds kind of like he is still in the closet to me... but that is just IMHO.

OK, you belong to the STR8 community, no? and HOW can you be just 1% gay if you openly say you play anal...? I know numbers are numbers and they don't mean a thing, but, at least you could be abit more gay and less str8, or is that just the empowering bit to US gays? :D

Straight guys can have girlfriends, or a good reach, and anyone can buy toys. The anus is an erogenous region. It doesn't matter what your orientation is.

YOU are right, and the thing is, AND I my fell in my own mistake, I'm so tired of labels... as I've writen before in lpsg.org I think we are going into a state of pansexuality, where we can DO what ever we want without having to, once again, lable it as a especific sexual orientation...

THANKS for the comment anyway! :D

I made the mistake to let him know that I was curious about prostate stimulation and I wanted to get one of those little toys to try myself. He told me about this straight guy and subtly asked me if I wanted to get my prostate massaged by his dick, that it was much better than any toy I could get. He knows that I wouldn't allow him to do that, but it seems like he's been getting a taste for straight guys lately(thought he has denied it). That's why I was wondering if there's some sense of of power over other males.

It could be that he senses your 10% gayness and might notice that you seem curious. And you may be sending mixed signals to him. Who knows? You might be up for an experiment at some point? Somehow I think this has less to do with this gay guy wanting to be with a "straight" guy and more about your curiosity and the signals you might be sending consciously or unconsciously.

Not at all. I make the same leaps as well. We all do.

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Or else he's simply falling prey to the idea that the anus is verboten! to straight men, ergo, he must have gay tendencies. I have yet to see a bunch of straight men sit around drinking and talk about the great pounding their wives/girlfriends gave them with the strap-on. In our society, a male who enjoys anal stimulation is still thought of as gay. It goes back to that whole passive=feminine/penetrative=masculine thing.

A woman experients with other girls when she's younger, and she's still straight.

A man experiments with a guy at any point in his life, and he's permanently labelled as a "fag."

Anyone want to explain that one?

Again, this has to do with gender stereotypes and gender expectations. It's considered "weak" to be inserted. Therefore, it's considered "womanly." Therefore, any man who would dare "experiment" with being penetrated must be somehow less than a man. And "fags" are less than men in our society based on gender expectations.

No one cares how women express their sexuality. They are supposed to want to be in the power position and become insertive and even have sex with other women. They are supposed to have less power. Therefore women are at best embraced for "trying things out" or at worst ignored by society because they aren't "on top" in the gender power game.

THIS is what I most enjoy in lpsg.org, there are really well educated guys, that bother to do a backgroud search about their fellow larger penis!
nice going JASON!

and THANKS for the handsome comment... ;)

With ya 110% there