advice from a younger member !

Ok, I just needed some help with this guy I know.
Were really good mates, and I've invited him to come over and stay the night next week, .. Thing is, I'm bi and he's straight. I kinda like him, I know I'd never properly fall for him, but I'm hoping to maybe have a j/o buddy in the making here. He is very comphurtable with himself and he really does seem the type who would do this but how do I go about it?!

(I dont want any negative advice please, eg:"if he's straight leave him alone blah blah blah" ... I dont care )

Thanks guys,

PS: best piece of advice gets brownie points (ha)

Buy some new porn and ask if he wants to watch it with you.

Better yet, just leave your porn lying around and let him find it....it will all unfold from thier if he is interested....

I see what you mean but I wouldn't even know how to start that conversation without getting too personal too quick. Thanks for your advice! ;)

papasguy, good idea ... But im way too embarassed to buy porn in a shop haha

Give us more info:

- Have you ever seen him naked? Has he ever seen you naked? (And under what circumstances if you two have?)
- Are you two similar in age?
- Does he know you're bi? (and are your SURE he's not?)

Get into a conversation about how awkward it was being a teenager, how you seemed to alway be horny and how you discovered jacking off helped a lot. See how he responds...
Mention how you used to j/o with another guy back when you were (13/14/15...pick a young age). Tell him you remember how fun and exciting it was to do that "way back when you were a kid". See how he responds...

Let's see what others have to say...

does he know you're bi? if not maybe you should try and find out his opinion on that whole subject first. i know you don't want to hear it but as hot a fantasy as str8 boys are it's not always a good idea to bait a bull.

were both the same age, and as a joke I pulled his trousers down once and he wasn't bothered atall, ... We've never seen eachother fully naked, only semi in underwear as we were in a show once and the dessing room we shared we changed together in.

He doesnt know I'm bi, but I'm pretty sure if he found out he wouldnt give a shit. But I wouldn't tell him at the moment anyway.
Thanks for all your advice so far, .. !

I’ve done that before with str8 guys. Start the conversation off about somebody you heard about or know. Tell your friend he is str8 but loves jacking off with other guys and does it all the time. Tell him something innocent like you have “thought” about trying something like that and then throw in how you don’t think you would like it if the other guy touched you though. See what he says

That way everything you say is non-committal and innocent. You are not saying you have done it or would do it, just that you have thought about it. You should know how he feels by then and even if nothing happens you haven’t said anything that can be used against you. Also, as another poster mentioned, having porn around and/or a few drinks should help.

Good Luck!

that was my other plan, just get pissed. Haha, but no I see where your coming from, and to be honest, I reckon he might even mention it first, cos he's more confident than me but who knows!

I'll pm you guys or something and let you know how it goes ... More advice is still ok though, I need plan C's to plan Z's haha x

be careful and don't push. I agree, if he is game, it will happen. If it doesn't you will still have a friend.

I've wanted to do something like that, but the risk is too great. Can't say I have any advice, but I'm not going to say you shouldn't do it.

If he knows your bi or gay it may scare him off many gays r willing to party with a bud as long as it's not labeled gay or anything. Just relax hang out in our underwears n all n you be yourself and go with the flow and push it a little every now and then, no guts no glory, if he's game you'll know if he's really not then back off that's all.

lifes to short to get stressed about it. be honest. just ask if he feels like having a wank. if you were in a play together odds are hes at least thought about your size changing with semis and all.

go for it and report back,

MAN, just put some AWESOME PORN playing and let it roll... probably you'll be playing house calls more often than YOU imagine! :D

p.s.: keep us posted about how it went... ;)