05-26-2008
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#31 (permalink)
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Sex? Overrated?
CONSTANTLY!
The media and society makes you feel less than a man if you're not getting shagged every night, can't get a blow job off any woman with little more than a look and have had a lesbian threesome at least once a month. | | | |
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05-26-2008
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#32 (permalink)
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@ Big Bull. I used to think I could do without the intimacy. But the loneliness sneaks up on you.
@ earllogjam. If I'm hungry. I'll have a Happy Meal, and it'll taste damn good. But you can't live on Happy Meals and stay healthy.
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Intimacy keeps us healthy, safe and sane. And it's pretty hard to keep up intimacy without sex, or at least without the comfort of knowing and feeling the body of someone you love. | | | |
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05-26-2008
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Originally Posted by Rugbypup  Sex? Overrated?
CONSTANTLY!
The media and society makes you feel less than a man if you're not getting shagged every night, can get a blow job of any woman with little more than a look and have had a lesbian threesome at least once a month. | RP! I challenge you to be positive about sex. Something about sex must be nice. Even bad sex is...well, it's at least a Happy Meal.
Personally, I think we might do well to keep the words "sex" and "rating" apart. It's not a competition. And sex is not in competition with other ways to make yourself happy.
As they say, it's one of the 5 Emotional Food Groups that go to make up the Food Pyramid of the Soul. Sex is part of a heart-healthy diet, but you can't live on sex alone. You'll get emotional scurvy, or something.
That was a crummy metaphor, but you get what I mean... | | | |
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05-26-2008
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#34 (permalink)
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...erm no, not really, sorry. | | | |
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05-26-2008
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Sex overrated? Not at all...it is what you put into it! | | | |
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05-26-2008
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Originally Posted by Rugbypup Sex? Overrated?
CONSTANTLY!
The media and society makes you feel less than a man if you're not getting shagged every night, can't get a blow job off any woman with little more than a look and have had a lesbian threesome at least once a month. | Well, I always thought that this was the definition of a man. Don't men fuck everyone they want because all women (and some men) can't resist our sexual charms and manly power? | | | |
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05-26-2008
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#38 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Industrialsize I like sex | I can totally understand why  | | | |
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05-26-2008
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Originally Posted by Hung Jon Well, I always thought that this was the definition of a man. Don't men fuck everyone they want because all women (and some men) can't resist our sexual charms and manly power? | Hoping that was written in sarcasm but if not, QED! | | | |
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05-26-2008
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I love sex.
But I hate the way it has been commercialized, and the way ti is constantly used to try and get me to buy shit I dont want or need.
Is it overrated. No. It is one of the best things in the world, both physically and emotionally, but it is not necessary for happiness. The only thing necessary for happiness is freedom.
The happy meal analogy was a good one. I could have had sex with my hot roommate. And when she had sex with dudes, they were probably happy for the moment, and had their egos stoked, a notch in the belt, but i knew better. I knew I wouldn't enjoy it with her, because we didn't see eye to eye on what good sex was.... and she was really dumb. (seriously stupidist person I ever met, that wasn't actually retarded) | | | |
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05-26-2008
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I think that sex is amazing. I wish that everyone had it more. (I wish I had it more. And with better minded individuals.) I think that sex in a relationship can be the most special thing. Passion and enthusiasm. You have to have them. If you are in a relationship and you aren't having sex because of an argument or not feeling like you are being appreciated...you gotta talk it over. Some lose desire over a partner being too fat or too old. I think that is sad. I have been done like that. It is disappointing. It makes me feel unvalued. Especially when I am rejected by guys who are just as fat and as old as I am. And I am not Jabba the Hutt. I think that a lot of people are hurting in life and that affects the sex drive too. I try to connect with people and feel really disconnected. But you never know when life will bring you someone in your life that will make you all feel like kings, queens and superheroes. Someone you can have sex and you can feel like the universe is just for you. I have heard the phrase "you can't love until you've loved yourself". I have heard from the most beautiful people...and those beyotches ALREADY got men. And I get so mad. I tell those fuckers that I love myself. I know what I want. I know what I desire in life. I want a devoted man and just hate getting used to the guy. AND then, they want to up and leave you. I guess that is my problem. I think that all that Disney doctrination has me fucked up in thinking that "Someday my prince will come" but Mickey never tells you that that regal fuckhead "will come in your best friend's ass and stop having sex with you because he is fucking your best friend and your prince is telling you that it is his erectile dysfunction...or that he isn't in the mood...or that he is fucking the friends' friends more."  | | | |
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05-27-2008
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#42 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by New End The happy meal analogy was a good one. | Yes, casual sex is a very happy meal, indeed! | | | |
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05-27-2008
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#43 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Rugbypup The media and society makes you feel less than a man if you're not getting shagged every night, can't get a blow job off any woman with little more than a look and have had a lesbian threesome at least once a month. | /agrees. | | | |
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05-27-2008
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#44 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by unabear09 Amen bigbull! I haven't had sex in over 2 years now, and honestly, I don't really miss it. My hands and my toys keep me in good shape most of the time, though a few times a month I kinda go crazy and like REALLY REALLY want to be inside a woman. Those days suck lol. As you stated above, the things I miss most about being in a relationship are the intimacy, the love, the touch, the romance one experiences with another person. I am determined, however, that the next time I have sex with someone, that that person will be someone that I am deeply in love with, and could spend the rest of my life together with them. I want to make love to a woman, and have sex as sex was intended to be, the ultimate act of love. Once we get beyond the intitial acts of love making, then we can screw like bunnies, though passionate, love filled sex will still be a major part of our sexual relationship. I'm a romantic at heart, and want to swoon a woman, make her fall in love with me for who I am, not for my body or any other physical attribution I may or may not have. | I like him.  Quote:
Originally Posted by earllogjam It seems to be about quantity like most things in America and never about quality. For me I'd rather have 5 gourmet meals a year than 100 Happy Meals. Happy Meal sex is sex just as some people consider McDonald's to be food but it rarely is satisfying. It just gets rid of the hunger. | I enjoy fast food on occasion, but when it comes to sex, I'll pass on the happy meal. I'm interested in quality over quantity. Quote:
Originally Posted by earllogjam I've had a lot of sex in my life and I got to a point where there were just too many Happy Meals. Sensual people are rare in my experience, people who I truly love to have sex with is also rare for me. Great transcendent sex is complex because it's about the energy, how the person looks, smells, talks, acts, feels and touches, and responds. But whenever I find someone like that I truly savor every bit of it and on those rare times sex transcends everything but for the many Happy Meal sex I've had I'd say it's overrated. And when people say it's not overrated because they have great sex everytime....they're probably kidding themselves. | Aren't you contradicting yourself there? You enjoyed your happy meals but overdosed on them. You've had great transcendent sex, but yet you say it's overrated because it's not great sex every time. Was happy meal sex great every time?
You're right about sensual people being rare, and wanting the energy, looks, smells, etc., so when you find that, why are you letting it pass you by? Even when we get all of that, we can't expect to have mind blowing sex every time. If we're lucky we might. 
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Originally Posted by Rugbypup
The media and society makes you feel less than a man if you're not getting shagged every night, can't get a blow job off any woman with little more than a look and have had a lesbian threesome at least once a month. | Very true. | | | |
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05-27-2008
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#45 (permalink)
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Yes... I think sex is overrated... however I also think it's awesome!
My opinion is that people place WAY too much emphasis on sex. It's just one of MANY aspects of a healthy and satisfying life. | | | |
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