Bad news for some big boys and caution for PE people: hard cock most important

johnschlong · 05-24-2008

I just watched a sexologist and urologist famous over here in Europe, who's known for his best-sellers about the penis (his name is professor Bo Coolsaet, he wrote, amongst other books "Het penseel der liefde" (Dutch) - Le Pinceau de L'Amour (French) - Der Pinsel der Liebe (German) - not sure of an English translation).

So he was on this talk show about sex. And they asked him the usual questions about what women want when it comes to a penis. Very interesting stuff.

Then they showed a street interview in which they asked women: "do you prefer a medium-sized but rock-hard penis, or a large penis that doesn't get that much erect". All of them preferred the hard one.

Coolsaet then commented with very interesting remarks:

-yes, this has been polled often, and it's a recurring finding, hardness is the more important of the factors

-then he made a serious warning: his department always advises against all forms of penis enlargement, because they are very often damaging to precisely this hardness.

In ranking order of danger:
-penis enlargement surgery can seriously affect erectile strength; even viagra will not help because critical tissue is weakened
-weights and pumps can do equally serious damage, because they loosen the tendons (not sure if this is the correct English word) with tiny 'fissures' that can leave irreparable damage
-he even mentioned "jelqing": "you know there is this trend of jelqing the penis with lubricant; it's an internet thing", etc... and then something of the kind of: "if this is not combined with kegels, I would never advise this as a technique because there's no scientific basis to say how much jelqing is ok, and how much is not; irreparable damage can be done".

-then a lot of blabla about being happy with what you got.

-finally, he said there are two simple natural ways to keep in shape:
1. doing kegel exercises
2. eating healthy food, losing weight and doing regular exercises

-and two simple things to avoid:
1. smoking is catastrophic for erections, but we already knew this. He is now busy with the government to create ads that play on this knowledge; to quit smoking prevents erectile dysfunctions. This message has been shown to be very effective in male test populations, he said.
2. ejaculating when the penis is not erect should be avoided; if you are capable of ejaculating without a full erection, you are showing the first signs of possible erectile dysfunctions that could deteriorate; in that case, you should see a doctor.

His main conclusion: women find an erect and well functioning penis just as important as men; erectile dysfunctions can ruin couples but can be prevented and if necessary treated; and smaller dicks that get very hard are preferred over big dicks that don't get that hard.

Very interesting dude and very no-nonsense about the topic. I hope someone puts this talk on Youtube.

Mademoiselle Rouge · 05-24-2008

i'm with the other ladies...i'd prefer a super hard cock over a partially hard one any day.

uwsswimguy · 05-24-2008

the translation (of the french anyway) is: the love brush (doesnt sound as good in english does it?)

thorshammer · 05-24-2008

I'm am hardest in the morning and less so at night, but it still stands up at night. I find when I have sex after hours of drinking it improves my stamina but gives me one of those hard ons that's hard enough to penetrate but can't stand up on it's own, it is still thick but hangs down. I've found that fucking a girl with the really hard one will help them to orgasm faster than with the droopy one, even though the size is the same and I can go longer with the drunk one.
I know that my friends with smaller cocks than me are harder than mine on average, I guess that' one drawback of a large penis.

spunkyboy2008 · 05-24-2008

I don't think this is a problem likely to be encountered unless you do something radically wrong with your PE and go totally overboard. In fact I've found that it helps improve erection quality and most report the same thing.

Chabp · 05-24-2008

Good for me. I get as hard a steel pipe

SyddyKitty · 05-24-2008

I'll take all the big boys with floppy cocks. :3~

randyr_ny · 05-24-2008

Good news for me!

Filss · 05-24-2008

Randyr you dick is amaazing! and proud!

jacknapier · 05-24-2008

I don't know many people who jelq but don't do kegels.

SyddyKitty · 05-24-2008

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Originally Posted by jacknapier

I don't know many people who jelq but don't do kegels.

Yea, pretty much anyone that kn ows about jelqing also knows about kegels since every bit of PE info tends to tell about both.

jason_els · 05-24-2008

Yeah but what about us?

If I'm working to make my cock bigger then it's for me and I wager most men who PE will say the same thing. They're not doing it for anyone other than themselves. Yeah they might imagine others will enjoy it too, but in the end, it's for their own self-esteem.

I don't care what women or other guys think of my dick. I care what I think of it.

MrGoodDate · 05-24-2008

Those first remarks and conclusions are very unspecific. Just because some one has the title of doctor, it does not mean he/she knows everything. Did he has research evidence about harm and erectile disfunction?

johnschlong · 05-25-2008

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Originally Posted by MrGoodDate

Those first remarks and conclusions are very unspecific. Just because some one has the title of doctor, it does not mean he/she knows everything. Did he has research evidence about harm and erectile disfunction?

For the first two PE techniques I think he was drawing on scientific evidence. After all, as a urologist he gets to see a lot of damaged penises and he may be the one who has to deal with dicks that went wrong after surgical enlargements.

He's a urologist heading a clinical department at one of the country's largest hospitals. So I think you should take his advice rather seriously.

Over here in Europe there are no fake professor-doctors at university-run top-hospitals.

About the jelqing he explicitly said that there has been no scientific research on this, which is exactly why he cautioned against practising it.

To me jelqing seems rather harmless, though, and I've read many people's stories in which they say they have achieved better erections because of it. Still, there might be some unsafe techniques.

bigboy9239 · 05-25-2008

pretty much the same in French as in German

the love brush