Do you see yourself as big or small as people say you are?

Always thought of self as small. Only other penis I'd seen till I was MUCH older (mid-to late 20's) was _MASSIVE_ soft and on a kid. (change-room, he was in my tai kwan-do class), plus all the crap via email (internet) and kids blowing smoke, bragging about 12" dicks (now, I really doubt if any actually had them. :P)
Anyways, back on target... I tend to think of what I have as "normal"... well, to me. other people describe as a bit longer than normal, but huge thick. (and, yes, people are poor guessers at length. ;P)

I definitely see it as being small.

Mirrors make it seem huge, pictures make it seem bigger than in reality, and partners always have positive things to say (don't they always though?).

When it all comes down to it, I think I'm slightly above average.

i feel smaller than others picture me i guess. i too can palm a basket ball and have very large hands

I to am tall 6'3", have very large hands and used to feel that I was small. I agree with the perspective thing. I have changed my mind since finding this site. (if only this site was around 25 years ago) My flaccid size can be quite small however I am a grower.

I have worked out that I am above average in all dimensions especially girth, giving a total volume of 40% larger than average. I am 7", 5" girth at the middle, large mushroom head am 8" girth at the base.

Should I post a photo?

I am in the same boat as you guys with respect to perspective. I am 6' and 250lbs (give or take), with fairly thick hands (13.5 ring size) and big legs. My perspective is off, and not having another dick around to compare it to I have a different view of big. That being said, when I see my cock on cam, or in the hands of a woman I can appreciate that it is fairly big. And feedback has been supportive of that, but still, I think that it is the nature of our being to feel (in most cases) that we are somehow smaller than the next guy.

I'm 6'1" tall and my hands are pretty massive (easily palms a basketball). From the wrist to the tip of my middle finger is a little over 8.5 inches, across the palm is 4 inches (Do I need to photograph that too? >_>). I also have very big thighs... -.- I've always felt mine was small due to my proportions, while online friends have almost always thought it to be large. People also considered it large when I was new at LPSG though, these days, they don't give off the same vibe. I ALWAYS feel smaller than the guys my cock-size here, because they all seem to have bigger shrooms which makes the entire package look bigger or, often times, more developed veins or corpus spongiosums.

I didn't notice this thread a day ago. O_o

My friend's first introduction to my little friend was when I wore lace underwear when I was in drag for Rocky Horror. Now they sporadically make reference to what they consider my big penis. I think its just average (maybe a little on the bigger side - 7 inch), but they persist. oh well.

Sometimes I look down when I am in the shower and think "fuck, my dick is so small" but then I get out and look at the body mirror and realize "fuck, i got a pretty good size dick!" I think when you look down at it, it just seems smaller because you see the least amount of length and width. All the girls and guys that have ever seen mine say its big though.

I'm small. No doubt about that. Nobody ever said mine was big. But I've still had a great sex life - still having in fact.

Never thought of myself as big. Always thought of myself as average or "what everybody else has."

Mine doesn't look big to me, but it is big, and people tell me it's big, so I go with it.

But yeah, looking down at it, it doesn't seem big to me. It does seem big when my girlfriend gives me head or a handjob, though. It's just that whole relative perception thing.

When I look down at my cock, it seems average. Certainly not big.

When I got a hard on in the shower once, I stepped out, looked in the mirror, and my God, on my short body my cock looked MASSIVE. I know it isn't, but if it seems as big to women as it did to me that time, I'll be happy.

As for camming, well... I haven't cammed all that much, so I don't know.

There has been one girl who has seen it in real life, and it was the biggest she's ever seen.

Judging by how she didn't even know the BASIC mechanics of how a handjob is supposed to work, though, I think it's also the smallest she's ever seen, so yeah.

EDIT: Also, my hands are really tiny, especially for a guy. I can't even come CLOSE to holding a basketball with one hand.

I think i'm pretty preportionate...bigger than avg. definitely...and I have huge hands. (XL lifting gloves)... however..it's all perception ...of course looking down at your own..you gonna think its not as big as you hear...but when its in someone's face or in front of a camera ...it's a different story. Just work what you got!!! The more confident a person is the more sexy they are.

*just don't get arrogance confused with confidence....

I'm 6' tall and I used to be able to palm a basketball, I also measure 8 inches from the base of my palm to the tip of my middle finger. I have gone through phases where I think I'm bigger than most and then, wham you look on this site and you get a wake up call. I have been told that I am big, but lately looking on this site, well I may be just above average. But I agree with OCMuscleJock, (looking good as usual) you've have to work at what you've got. Too many guys on this site complain that they're not well endowed, but from what I've seen of some of these men, uh, you're wrong.

I tend to think of myself as more average even though the stats seem to show that my size 7" (or more) accounts for less than 10% of guys. Quite a few guys and girls have complimentented me on my size and most of the guys I've been with have been smaller but a few seemed huge next to me. One college guy was amazed by my size, which I thought was a bit strange at the time as it seemed genuine, but if 90% of guys are smaller than me and he hadn't been with many it could make sense. Also I'm 5'9 and pretty thin, so it seems bigger in proportion.

I think maybe my opinion is a bit fixed to what it was before I'd seen many other guys or the statistics.