gay relationship advice

arktrucker

My partner and I are approaching our 24th anniversary and believe me, fantasizing about someone else is normal.

Now words of advice. Do not let 'little' things drive a wedge between you two. There is nothing that will come between you quicker than the 'thought' of your man 'thinking' about someone else. Jealousy is like cancer in a gay relationship and it will grow and kill the love you have.

goodwood

Cajun - you are an oracle. A prophet. LOL! That was hilarious.

Everyone else's advice on the matter at hand is right on.

marleyisalegend

cajun you're SO FUNNY and SO HILARIOUS, bend over so i can kiss your ass some more, please, i wanna see how far up there my lips can fit!!!!

......i don't wanna have to eat lettuce. those stupid bags of spring mix PISS ME OFF.....


i know you've taken to wearing your father's hand-me-down anger, but i wish that you wouldn't it's a few sizes too big and everyone can see it doesn't fit you, makes you look silly, hangs loose in all the wrong places, even if it does match your skin color.....

Nick4444

actually, dude, it was funny!

(you know I mean no disrespect, at all!)

Hey! I know what to do with a drunken sailor!

Vancouver Canucks will rule! (maybe next year!)

クジラを救いなさい -- 日本人を銛を打ち込みなさい

解放西藏 !

marleyisalegend

i know, it's my history with cajun that sent the humor flying over my head. but at the end of the day, i responded to the OP with advice, cajun was more focused on me. i wonder if he has some undercover amorous feelings for me......

......i don't wanna have to eat lettuce. those stupid bags of spring mix PISS ME OFF.....


i know you've taken to wearing your father's hand-me-down anger, but i wish that you wouldn't it's a few sizes too big and everyone can see it doesn't fit you, makes you look silly, hangs loose in all the wrong places, even if it does match your skin color.....

DC_DEEP

Well-said, trucker.

Too many people have been conditioned to believe the romantic notion that once you find your mate, everyone else suddenly becomes unattractive. That's just unrealistic, and unrealistic parameters in a relationship set it up to fail.

Some idealism is great, but it's much better to be pragmatic about relationship dynamics, if you want to succeed.