Too big?

Hi,

I'm about 8x6" and have been unable to penetrate my boyfriend despite repeated attempts. (And I've never actually performed with anyone else before.) It just seems to be too thick to get in more than half an inch or so.

Any advice? Is there anything we can do besides forcing him to use some sort of sex toy to work his way up to it? I guess what I mean is...is there anything that can be done without trying to give his ass a preparatory workout?

Also, any advice for a first time top?

Many thanks.

show us some pics :)

have him clean out well with warm water lots of foreplay I have a 3 finger rule if you can't take 3 fingers then you can't take me
lol

Well.....he's had plenty of anal before he met me without any problems. :P

I agree with "boynextdoor" Were not all buckets, me and my boyfriend use poppers and it's much easier and despite what anyone tells you there not illegal.
I surgest poopers they work for me and my mans quite gifted :P

maybe you're the biggest out of all his partners.

Actually it depends on where you live......they ARE illegal in Massachusetts and the TSA people at MASS airports will turn you into the police if they find them

Yea. Take Industrialize's advice. Stick a cucumber in your ass and strangle your prick until its deep purple. Its smooth sailing from there.

I nominate this as the LPSG Out-Of-Context-Sentence-Of-The-Year. :)

As is evidenced by the abundance of videos out there of men with all kinds of large implements jammed up their behind, the ass can stretch a LOT, it's mind over matter and requires practice. You need to get a variety of small to large size dildoes. The best thing about it is that the pratice is FUN!

As for topping... just be patient and be careful.