Sexual Experiment

bek2335 · 5 Days Ago

I LOVE black women. Glad you had a good time, boynextdoorkpt.

njqt466 · 5 Days Ago

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Originally Posted by Ms.Teacher

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I agree. What's with people congratulating him? And they're all older than him.

Because we remember our first time and we are welcoming him to the club, so to speak.

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What happened to sex ed?

Well I don't know about your high school but mine did not teach anything about oral sex techniques. I guess we are glad he was able to perform at all, let alone well, in a high pressure/stress situation.

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Would you all be congratulating him if he were your son? I doubt it.

I don't have kids, but I am old school. My parents know nothing about my sex life and I'm glad of that. I don't think I would want to know every detail of my childrens sex lives. FWIW he is 18 so it's not like anybody has a right to complain.

Boy, that was not safe sex, and you don't have a clue about that girl's sexual history. And I'm wondering if this actually happened. You've been playing the innocent, naive, sexually inexperienced boy for the past few weeks, and now sex all of a sudden? You've got me wondering. Have you been putting us all on, boy?

Anyway, read this link and learn...

Rick Sowadsky M.S.P.H., C.D.S, Answers to Safe Sex Questions

I am 42 and have been sucking cock for over 20 years. I have never used a condom. Yes, I know some STD's including Herpes and HIV can be transmitted this way but the chance of transmittal orally is very slim. It also helps that I am rather picky about my men.

tal94 · 5 Days Ago

what's the lad supposed to do, go down on her through her femidom?

Hellboy0 · 5 Days Ago

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Originally Posted by tal94

what's the lad supposed to do, go down on her through her femidom?

Dental dams????? Oh fuck NOOOOOO!!!! I'd sooner poke my eyes out with a hot poker.

HyperHulk · 5 Days Ago

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Originally Posted by Ms.Teacher

Of course monogamy is taken on faith.

Did you grow up in the 1960's or were your parents products of the 60's? Wake up call: this is 2008! You're right about the OP. He is 18 (at least he says he is), and if so, he is an adult, albeit a very naive one as he's led us to believe for the past few weeks.

LOL You've got to be kidding. You're trying to say that I'm safer going out and having oral sex with different guys every night than being in a monogamous relationship.

I'll have to agree to disagree on this one. CYA!

Yes, monogamy is taken on faith and history has shown that that faith has been taken for granted by many people. So again, I disagree that entering into a relationship you believe is monogamous means that you protected 100% against stds. That was my point.

I'm not a product of the 60s, the 70s as a matter of fact. I have no idea what you mean by those statements. Billions of people have oral sex without condoms. I am well aware this is 2008, again, I'm not sure what your point is. I really can't see anything that I've written that is so incredulous to you.

I never said that you are safer having sex with different guys than a monogamous relationship. There's no need to distort what I said for you to maintain your moral high-ground. I'm merely stating that there is a risk of stds in even "monogamous" relationships and there is a risk of stds while having unprotected oral sex. Those are facts. Is the risk less in monogamous relationships? Of course. Nevertheless the risk exists and you accept that risk. You have made an adult decision for yourself. If someone choses to have unprotected oral sex they accept the risk and they have made an adult decision as well. Again, what have I written that is outrageous or nonsensical?

Mademoiselle Rouge · 5 Days Ago

Ok, when i was 8th grade many many years ago we learned all about condoms and what not. In todays time of sex, are these modern day kids not getting pulled aside and learning this? It's all about personal choice really. I never used condoms (okay i did when i lost my virginity and a handful of times after that) and i knew that i was taking a risk. Yes call me a stupid teenager and all the rest of it but no one could have told me any different. My aunt tried to talk to me about condoms and i'd just act i was doing just that and do my own thing.

I was more scared of getting pregnant than getting an STD so i practiced other forms of pretty reliable birth control. This is where it pays off to be with mostly virgins.

Times have changed but along with it people have also been educated a bit more than we used to be and a hell of a lot sooner.

Landon, if a guy pulled out a dentaldam on me when i was young i would have laughed at him honestly. No offense to you all who practice this form of safe sex but it is still a bit foreign to carry dams in your purse.

But then again having 3 or more sex partners by highschool graduation was considered a lot when i was in HS.

boynextdoorkpt · 4 Days Ago

She is my actual first sexual partner, and I graduate on Friday night, coming up, SO, unless I get really busy this week, which I doubt, she will be my only sexual partner in HS. BUT, is oral sex really sex? I have yet to penetrate anyone or be penetrated. so technically, am I still a virgin????

PWRSTRK · 4 Days Ago

There are so many definitions and arguments about that, Landon. Use the one that makes you feel right about yourself. If you feel like a virgin you're still one and if you consider that to have been a 'breaking' moment for you, maybe you can consider that you've given it up and you did in high school!

Tom

boynextdoorkpt · 4 Days Ago

Well , I have fingered two girls, that is penetration, I should have said penile penetration.
I wish I could like date a girl and a boy and have the best of both worlds!

PWRSTRK · 4 Days Ago

Well maybe in college that will happen -- in my 20s I found myself in a situation of having 'things' going with a woman and a man at the same time... it was challenging (secretive!) but fun... and my cock was very happy, thats for sure!

As to finger penetration -- I doubt that made you feel like you were giving up any virginity at all, right?

Tom

boynextdoorkpt · 4 Days Ago

No, did not feel that any virginity had passed, but damn do I love the feel of pussy.

220483 · 4 Days Ago

ISN'T oral sex with a girl called EATING OUT?
anyway, GOOD for you! and LOVE thenew version of spin the bottle!

and I'm with YOU... MONSTER is soooo HOT!
we should all get together and do a THREESOME! :D

boynextdoorkpt · 4 Days Ago

I am literllay UP for that with you and monster!

Ms.Teacher · 4 Days Ago

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I respect what your saying Ms. Teacher, but with all the advice I got on this site, I decided to go ahead and do it. It was just oral sex, I have known her like for 10 years, she is a virgin, well actual intercourse virgin.
I think you should explore your sexuality. I am not out on the streets fucking everything that moves, I am safe, I am the child of two docs, I know the safety rules. I think I am ok, and sorry if it offended you, but boys do grow up and I am growing up and sprouting.

You didn't offend me. I was concerned because of the recent report indicating that 1 in 4 teenage girls have an STD, and nearly half of the black girls had at least one STD.

1 in 4 teen girls have STD - USATODAY.com

The 1970's brought us herpes, the '80's brought AIDS, and now we're in a new century and the amount of STD's is increasing yearly, especially in young people. No person should ever feel pressure to have sex just because of their age. 18 isn't that old, young man.

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She is my actual first sexual partner, and I graduate on Friday night, coming up, SO, unless I get really busy this week, which I doubt, she will be my only sexual partner in HS. BUT, is oral sex really sex? I have yet to penetrate anyone or be penetrated. so technically, am I still a virgin????

Oral sex really is sex. Yes, you're still a virgin.