Taking It Up The Ass

husky14620

If you don't enjoy it, why try? There is no shortage of bottoms in the Gay community. But sometimes it seems like there aren't any tops left at all.

Seriously, if you aren't stimulated by getting fucked, why not stick to oral or topping? On the other hand, if you are stimulated, but are having difficulty, try butt plugs or small dildoes, working the hole itself for a while, and building up to larger plugs or dildoes. A vibrating plug or dildo might also make it easier, as the vibrations can help the sphincter to relax more.

devildix

Any updates? Did you take anyone's advice and are you now an insatiable bottom? LOL. Lots of lube and dildos will help you find out what you like and how you like it. And if you don't, then no big deal.

dv8hou

Primarily, you have to get loosened up right. Let the Top finger you nice and slowly. Start with rimming if the Top likes that. When you are squirming, wet and ready have him start to finger you. He should start off with one finger going slowly until you are adjusted to the single finger, and it is feeling really good. Once you are totally relaxed and enjoying the single finger working your ass, the Top should then ease a second finger in slowly. Have him work it until again it starts to feel really good. After you get to the point were 2 fingers feel good, follow the same steps with 3 fingers, unless the top is kinda small. You have to keep going, with the Top adding fingers to the point where the number of fingers basically matches the Top's dick girth. By this time you should be damn hot, and wanting that cock sliding into you, and if not then you may just not be a bottom.

I find the best position to take a cock comfortably is while lying on my side with the top behind me. Straddling the top while he is on his back can be good too, since you are controlling the penetration. I think if the top is good and knows what he is doing you should probably be able to take his cock comfortably whatever position he wants to penetrate you.

Lots of good lube is important too. The silicon based lubes are my favorite. They are very slick, not sticky and don't really dry out during use.

The Greek Dude

That's terrible advice. You might as well suggest that he do a line of coke off of the guy's cock.

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Splendid

Oh get over it, you misery. I believe I safely qualified what I said. I made a *suggestion*. Nobody´d really, pardon the pun, bent over backwards to help this guy before I dropped him a line. Have a nice weekend.

The Greek Dude

Have a nice unsafe drop in blood pressure via your drug of choice.

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dansk1

You need to savor it, ride it slow and easy, and concentrate on the good feeling -- and that's all! To get pounded and for someone to go too fast will make it another week with no sitting down.

hot-rod

Get yourself a stainless steel hose and dildo to hook to your shower head. Lay down in the tub on your back and clean yourself out really good. Don't rush because it will take about 45 min to do it well. Use warm water too. Then take a rather long dildo and start to fuck yourself until you have it all the way up. The more you do this, the more relaxed you become. Then you will be ready to take one up the butt the size of Quercusone.

salvatruco

I've had a couple of big cocks, and I have honestly been able to work with it. Part of it is they have been very experienced, compared to me. I know that with one guy, it was so big that we couldn't do it doggy style. Doggy style can be uncomfortable with a big guy until you are used to it with other positions. When it is too big, I usually go for my legs over his shoulders. This position seems to be the least uncomfortable.

Also, spooning position is not bad. I think you just have to relax and take some deep breaths. Lube is great and once you have speed going, he can pound you as much as he wants, just let him know when you are tired. :)

fistbottom

toys whilst wanking

Lee_M

Jason321

U see Frank! Lotsa lube! Try dildos up ur ass while wanking!

boynextdoorkpt

I worry about that too, that anal stuff, but I think that when I meet him, he will know what to do and I will be ready to do it, right Monster? lol
landon

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220483

THANKS for all the advice [withpoppers or not... :P] specially the NOT living in a porn flick one! THAT'S the most important thing... IT'S just not, drop your pants and lets shove it in... TAKE time, use lube, relax and HAVE fun!

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have FUN and ENJOY!

lvsxy808

They just did a study in London, and there were literally twice as many self-professed bottoms as tops.

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