"Sluts" and "Whores"

mercurialbliss · 05-07-2008

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Originally Posted by Kotchanski

Oooo I have another one while we're pulling apart porn..

Can we please please pretty please get rid of hot pink lycra clothing? It makes my eyes hurt when they switch to a new girl and she's wearing that, the bastards never take it off either

You mean when they pull the thong over to the side 'cause they can't be bothered to take it off? And what's with some of these girls wearing dopey stuff like cowboy hats and high heels together?

For the record, I've kept it on mute for years as well. Hate that, 'cause the sound of a man's voice is heaven to my ears.

ScaredLittleBoy · 05-07-2008

In the real world:

If a woman whom a man wants to sleep with refuses him, she's a slut

If a woman pisses off another woman, she's a slut

If a woman cheats on a man (particularly with numerous partners), she's a whore

If a woman steals another woman's boyfriend, she's a whore

In porn...

"Slut" and whore are the selling points. Catchphrases. If they were taken out then porn wouldn't be as exciting or different.

Intelligent people don't let porn, which is a fantasy, enter into reality.

Kotchanski · 05-07-2008

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Originally Posted by mercurialbliss

You mean when they pull the thong over to the side 'cause they can't be bothered to take it off? And the boob tubes that get pulled up or down, but never off. I think I could deal with a thong, its only small after all, but a huge piece of hot pink material in the middle of screen just isn't good. And what's with some of these girls wearing dopey stuff like cowboy hats and high heels together?

Some of the clothing combinations I've seen recently have left the mind boggling.

Industrialsize · 05-07-2008

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Originally Posted by Mademoiselle Rouge

I've noticed this disrespect that porn is renowned for is spilling over into the amateur community. I've never liked the slut and whore titles and dialogue but it bothers me that a man would refer to his wife as such.

I've talked porn with many different males, any that find this kind of talk in porn to be repulsive, also notices the general misogynistic nature of professional porn. He tends to not enjoy watching a woman be seen as a mere "cum dumpster" and has no desire to mimic that sort of behavior in the bedroom.

The males whom i've talked to who do find nothing wrong with it tend to have some pretty messed up relationships with the females around them. Most of the guys i've seen brag on these sort of things or talk about these things as their ultimate fantasy, tend to repel women from them because they treat them in a condescending way.

I cringe when i see a guy talk about his fantasies about humiliating a woman in front of his peers. Maybe my own sexually abusive past makes me so sensitive to the sexual disrespect i'm seeing as mainstream and among amateurs.

Vintage porn didn't show as much of the following:

Slapping a womans face with his cock
Requiring oral sex from her with no reciprocation
Mass numbers of males cumming on her face
Ass to mouth
No lubrication prior to intercourse (even anal sex)
A blantant disreguard for her pussy such as slapping it, slapping her tits (which is not generally pleasurable)
Spitting on her face
Forced face fucking
Gagging her
Calling her names
Unrealistic views on the female body to the point where its sexier to be too skinny than to have 5 extra pounds on your ass
Digustingly large rippling implants
Faking is more popular because women have to fake being turned on when they are being spat on, throat fucked and called a slut at the same time
Insane insertions to further push the pussy/ass to the limit and/or humiliate her
Pubic hair has to be non-existent or shaped in a way that is difficult to maintain in order to do away with anything naturally pleasing about the female genitalia.

With the advent of internet porn and access to unlimited amounts of it for free there is going to be a new culture/generation of males who are not going to know how sex is a delicate dance between the male and female. Not a one way, give it to me, I'll do with you how i please, act that is solely about your cock and balls.

I was very fortunate to be paired with males who were respectful to me during sex and most of the time in every day life. I married a man who would cut off his balls before he'd call me a whore in the bedroom. Maybe there are a few of you who like this or are married to women who like this, but i have a feeling most women would refuse to be compared to a whore or a slut but rather more pleasing descriptions if we are hungry for your body in the bedroom.

I feel there is more psychological damage done to males and females who find this sort of trend to be acceptable. This is in no way talking about submission and domination agreements between people who participate in that and get turned on by humiliation. Those are a special breed who are ignited by it. I am talking about mainstream everyday pornography found on xtube, redtube, youporn, etc.

I'd be interested to hear your thoughts on it, male and female.

Am I a pervert? All of the things you listed I love to have a hot alpha male do TO me....yikes!

Kotchanski · 05-07-2008

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Originally Posted by Industrialsize

Am I a pervert? All of the things you listed I love to have a hot alpha male do TO me....yikes!

Yes you're a pervert, but we love you for it

Industrialsize · 05-07-2008

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Originally Posted by Kotchanski

Yes you're a pervert, but we love you for it

Just checking.....but i agree, there must be an entirely different dynamic when this activity goes on between a man and a woman unless they ARE both into the whole role play aspect of it.

jrad · 05-07-2008

I couldnt agree more with most everything that Kotch and Rouge are saying in this post.

Then comes the mans perspective and I agree with what Hingdave is saying as well. In the real world women can be very confusing.

It all comes down to fantasy vs reality. What is your fantasy and what is your reality. I find the abusive nature of many porn fantasies NO FUN and I turn it off.

I find the amature porn or reality porn much prefered to the current production stuff. I like what Rouge has done because it is more erotic and really not porn at all in my mind.

The best part of all of this is that if you don't like it, and it doesnt turn you on, you can turn it off!

Keep up the good work everyone...I like this place.

J

tripod · 05-07-2008

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Originally Posted by Kotchanski

Oooo I have another one while we're pulling apart porn..

Can we please please pretty please get rid of hot pink lycra clothing? It makes my eyes hurt when they switch to a new girl and she's wearing that, the bastards never take it off either

Tripod goes and returns his new pink lycra unitard for fear of making Kotch's eyes hurt.

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Originally Posted by Kotchanski

Hitting the same note... that reminds me of the things I hate most in porn:

1. Seriously hot guy with average at best dick and she's screaming "Fuck my tight wet cunt with your huge dick" How am I meant to get off while I'm laughing so hard I'm crying?

That is one of the best benefits of a lpsg membership, I get to watch straight porn that has guys with genuinely big cocks fucking appreciative females... I am soooo with ya on that!!!!

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Originally Posted by mercurialbliss

You mean when they pull the thong over to the side 'cause they can't be bothered to take it off? And what's with some of these girls wearing dopey stuff like cowboy hats and high heels together?

Clearly a cowboy hat needs cowboy boots to go with it. I have NEVER had a woman pull her undies to the side and say, "Fuck me like a slut!" Nor have I ever had to fuck a pussy so fast that I couldn't get their knickers off in time... damn if that wouldn't chafe like a mofo!!!

New End · 05-07-2008

Most of the performers in porn, amateur or otherwise are sluts or strippers or "buying" drugs. That's the reality.

Slapping a womans face with his cock

I learned it from "devil in Ms. Jones" And it was a hot scene. I love doing it, and my ex loved it. Not all the time, of course, but its just role play, and she was disappointed if her boyfriends were not aggressive enough to do it.

Requiring oral sex from her with no reciprocation

watching a guy go down on a girl usually is boring.

Mass numbers of males cumming on her face

I must admit, as humiliating as it is, sometimes I love me some bukkakke.

Ass to mouth

foul!

No lubrication prior to intercourse (even anal sex)

lubrication!? Boo! lubrication like spit means shes not turned on!

A blantant disreguard for her pussy such as slapping it, slapping her tits (which is not generally pleasurable)

hmm... slapping with what?

Spitting on her face
Forced face fucking
Gagging her
Calling her names

foul

Unrealistic views on the female body to the point where its sexier to be too skinny than to have 5 extra pounds on your ass
Digustingly large rippling implants

this really isnt in amateur I have seen.

Faking is more popular because women have to fake being turned on when they are being spat on, throat fucked and called a slut at the same time
Insane insertions to further push the pussy/ass to the limit and/or humiliate her

again, you are being jaded by pseudo amateur porn, I think. Which is porn using strippers or prostitutes, and telling them to pose as wifes or girlfriends... or drugs are being exchanged for services, (see prostitutes)

Pubic hair has to be non-existent or shaped in a way that is difficult to maintain in order to do away with anything naturally pleasing about the female genitalia.

matter of opinion. I think younger women do not shave, out of shame of admitting they want to be played with, and older women do. Its a part of adult hygiene, like cutting your hair, or shaving your legs, or shaving your face.

javyn · 05-07-2008

Oh as far as the bukkake goes, I sometimes enjoy the German Goo Girls series, and guess what it was a woman who got me into it.

I've never slapped a girl's pussy before my current gf, who requests it. Also that I call her names. Then again I requested she spit on my face after a bj. I guess we are sick individuals.

New End · 05-07-2008

I just thought of something. An ex gave me free reign to do whatever I wanted with our movies and pictures (recently, as an ex)

..but I would never post them on the internet, because i don't want to see it reposted one day on some website with shit like "cock hungry whore fucks herself stupid"

MrGoodDate · 05-07-2008

If its sex it sells. Most of the porn is done for profit. And most of the models are earning a living or earning drug money. What is done is not love, is not even pleasurable.
My greatest pleasure is when our bodies are engaged and close together,,, something a camera cannot catch.
Porn is illusion.
But the young are driven,,, and many of the old.
My motto is,,, with me,,, my lover always comes first. Or always cumms first.

sugarandspice · 05-07-2008

So it's only abusive if it is done by men?
What about women who are very unkind to other women.
They are very mean and will use these terms and very hateful.
Some women hate other women with a vengeance and are very cruel.
Isn't that wrong too?

Mademoiselle Rouge · 05-07-2008

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Originally Posted by sugarandspice

So it's only abusive if it is done by men?
What about women who are very unkind to other women.
They are very mean and will use these terms and try malign.
Some women hate other women with a vengeance.
Isn't that wrong too?

Were you talking about porn? Or some underlying issue you are battling?

marleyisalegend · 05-07-2008

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Originally Posted by sugarandspice

So it's only abusive if it is done by men?
What about women who are very unkind to other women.
They are very mean and will use these terms and try malign.
Some women hate other women with a vengeance.
Isn't that wrong too?

HATE is wrong no matter what the sex, race, weight, etc... the only people we should hate are child molesters and insurance salesmen

"Sluts" and "Whores"

Originally Posted by Kotchanski Oooo I have another one while we're pulling apart porn.. Can we please please pretty please get rid of hot pink lycra clothing? It makes my eyes hurt when they switch