"Sluts" and "Whores"

Originally Posted by Mademoiselle Rouge

You aren't watching mainstream straight porn then Or, maybe you aren't, guess we'll never know unless you want to swap collections for comparison. And you havent been around here as long as i've been here So this is a new account of yours then? Forgive me, I assumed since the date showed 08, that you'd recently joined. I've been here for quite some time, thanks. and i've seen tons of posts regarding males telling females how their bodies should react- squirt, orgasm from penetration alone, etc. The posts of a few morons hardly equated to real life experiences. You've had ONE experience with someone like that by your own admission, hardly equated to a major issue.

Just because i find blatant disrespect for females to be disrespectful doesn't make me out of the ordinary. You really didn't get my point did you? The whole point is that YOU find it disrespectful, and thats fine, thats how you see it, thats perfectly normal, but to suggest that because I don't find it disrespectful I'm the abnormal one isn't exactly right now is it? What I'm saying is, people view things differently, and their opinions are based on what they get from it, if one can view it and think "Oh, I'd like to be her" then to her, it clearly isn't disrespectful, making her normal, and if you view it and think "OMFG I can't believe this shit, this is disgusting" then you clearly find it disrespectful, and thats normal too.

I can tell we will get along just peachy!

Originally Posted by Mademoiselle Rouge

I dont speak for every woman, i speak for a lot of women. And i look at any of the major porn hubs such as yuvutu.com, youporn.com, redtube.com, xtube.com and i check them many times a day and they have the latest published videos from mainstream porn companies as well as amateur. The titles often suggest that calling women "slut" and "whore" is going to be mainstream I'm starting to work this out now I think. I rarely even look at titles when I download since I rename everything as soon as its finished anyway, mainly because they tend to be very badly named in the first place. I'll never forget that "Hardcore gangbang" one I downloaded last month... 2 guys, a girl, and.... OMG they used a butt plug *shock* I've never been so amused in my life at the variations between one persons idea of hardcore gangbang and anothers. My husband wrote me a program to go downloading with, I just give it the url, it looks for all movie types and follows all links doing the same. Get some right shit, and stuff I'd never watch in a million years, but an hour or so sorting, and I'm good for the day.

Our ideas of what we find acceptable often have to do with how we are raised. I was raised by VERY strict parents, my mother disowned me when I told her I was bisexual. These words were used to describe a worthless meaningless person that no one would miss if she disappeared from the streets. I see we are from different parts of the world, raised in different families and married different types of men. You have no idea about my family, so I'll leave it by saying they're nothing like me, and would hate me if they knew the real me. My husband is a very kind and gentle man, nothing like me, I'm a very aggressive person in most if not all respects. Our sexual past has a lot to do with how we see ourself and others. That I agree with 100%, I've not had a very good sexual past, as some of my earlier posts explained. I am the way I am because it was my way of dealing with being raped and abused time and time again.

I am more aggressive sexually and i pick more sexually conservative partners because our personas meld well. It was a major insult to be called "bitch" "slut" "whore" From someone who didn't know me, I'd feel the same, my "friends" and husband know me well enough to know that I'll take it who they intend me to, and if thats in a negative manner, I'll make damn sure they can't have sex for at least a month.

What used to be confined to fetish porn (which i thoroughly enjoy by the way) has been skewed into some shitty version of what was sub/dom conversation between someone who obviously enjoyed playing the counterpart to the other.

When i see the typical "frat boy" or "unkept" middle aged male paired with a stereotypical female porn actress who just happened to make it through auditions because she can take a face fuck on cam like a pro and can manage to tune out any shit given to her.... I think I downloaded that one last week, I deleted it shortly after, I'll tolerate and enjoy most things, but at least want to be able to picture them hooking up in real life, I blame the kids TV.. I mean come on.. Princess Fiona and Shrek?

Maybe i need to find out where you are getting your porn, because obviously i don't have a clue where to find the good stuff.

Originally Posted by javyn

David, you are pretty much right on. I used to be a nice guy once, until I woke up and realized that what women SAY they want and how to be treated is completely different than how they REALLY want to be treated. In other words, action speaks louder than words. Every girl will say she wants a nice guy, but they all say that while they date jerks.

Misogyny sucks certainly, but it's even more sad that it's biggest supports are in fact women.

edit: There is nothing wrong with calling someone a slut, or cock slapping, or spitting, if that's what you both are into.

Originally Posted by javyn

Kotch, the worst is the running commentary by the dumbass cameraman in those bangbros videos. Completely retarded.

Originally Posted by javyn

David, you are pretty much right on. I used to be a nice guy once, until I woke up and realized that what women SAY they want and how to be treated is completely different than how they REALLY want to be treated. In other words, action speaks louder than words. Every girl will say she wants a nice guy, but they all say that while they date jerks.

Misogyny sucks certainly, but it's even more sad that it's biggest supports are in fact women.

edit: There is nothing wrong with calling someone a slut, or cock slapping, or spitting, if that's what you both are into.

Originally Posted by Mademoiselle Rouge

Maybe my friends are like me and i certainly dont fit that stereotype. I just happened to be blessed with a gentleman who is also very attractive. I've dated not so attractive gentlemen because it was more important to me to be treated like a lady. That's something my Dad taught me and my mom showed me by choosing my dad who is much older than she is for her 2nd marriage, because he valued her.

Originally Posted by HungDavid

You are like most ladies should be . In my logic people should not want to treat them badly . That's crazy and that actually says that something is really wrong with the person .