The first thing would be height. I have a Napoleon complex even at my height.
Next would be face - eyes, bone structure, ergo - is this guy 'better bred than me', then body, then personality. Ability to exchange pointed, witty conversation and joke also at the top of the list.
It is natural to size up the competition so to speak and see if there is the same goal in mind. Guys seem to get on better when there is not the same end goal in mind and they are able to relate on an equal plane. |