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Originally Posted by HaagenDazs LMFAO. Basically.
And I agree with Hyperhulk.
The first five people to see your penis...AFTER THE FIRST GRADE? Why are we worrying about who saw our penis as a child. Or whose penis we saw as a child. I just don't see the intent behind it.
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First let me say I am very sorry that one of the posters responding was abused as a child. There is no excuse for child abuse. And some of the worst child abuse comes in the form of emotional and physical abuse which unfortunately is still allowed even when their is proof that it is happening. There are few things that don't get me riled up faster than adults that chose to abuse children in any form shape or fashion.
Now not a single person complained about the first thread. Every poster responding gave the first penises they saw happening during their childhood. Needless to say when no one complained about the other five penises thread, I was surprised to see people complaining about this one. I never intended for this discussion to be sexualized. And I should have known that the first time for some people may have been when they were sexually abused. Those scars last a lifetime. And that thought did not enter my mind on the first thread or this one.
I added the part after first grade to the post. That wasn't needed in the other thread. There were at least five doctors and nurses who saw all of our penises probably even before our mothers saw them.
I was really expect guys to name friends, not only adults. The only men I remember seeing my penis were my father and my grandfather except for doctors nurses etc.
I suppose I should have written that you can remember instead of putting first grade.
I would have never even thought about starting such a thread had it not been for three events, all of them here at the LPSG.
One:
Previous discussions here and only here that let me know that many guys here had childhood experiences that were greatly different from my own. I don't remember who all saw mine as a young child using the dressing room in the public swimming pools before fifth grade,but I remember a vague idea from that time what both little boys, teens and adult men looked like, but except for the instances I gave. I don't remember any specific men. I can't put faces with penises I saw at that age, much less names.
Two:
On the First Five Penises You Saw thread I found out that there are guys who had never seen an adult penis period until their teens. Had no idea about hair down there, sizes, etc
Discussion here about nudity among family and friends and I realized that some many here did not have the experiences that my generation had where seeing penises was a dime a dozen down at the local Y.
That other thread about the first five penises you saw. Some of those answers such as I never saw my dad's penis or my brother's got me to wondering got me to wondering just when modesty began for each guy here. As in what age were you when you became modest. That may been a much better title.
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That thread itself. That is not one I would have thought to start. And there was not a single complaint about that one. I believe the words first grade caused questions to pop in people's minds that might not would have happened if I had just said the First Five People Who Saw Your Penis
To the poster here that said there is nothing wrong with this discussion but the child predators look for such as this to read. I see your point, but I don't see that this thread is going to bring child predators here to the LPSG. I don't know what all they read. They read the newspaper as well. There are all kinds of things to read that might arouse them that are innocent in themselves.
If there isn't anything wrong with the discussion itself, then what is the problem? I really doubt that child predators have selected the LPSG to be their main avenue to read and view. Some how I would think there has to be something about somewhere that would appeal to them more than adult dicks and adult conversation. We are very strict as we can be about the posting of minors. Minors posts don't have to be pornographic for the mods to delete it.
I am sorry that some confused this with some kind predator thread that would attract child predators to want to read. The thought that some adult might list having a child being in the first five is just something I didn't cross my mind. I was well past five people who had seen my dick long before I was 18.
You can rest assured that if a post from someone listing a child as being the first to see their penis after they became adults, it will be deleted.