Rivas. Of course it's normal. You're going into unknown territory, so feeling unsafe is a normal defense mechanism. Any time there is a paradigm shift in life we feel unsafe, to greater or lesser degrees. you know what I mean?

But you should be ready to let go of it and go with the flows of a love relationship. It can happen.

Everytime I have fallen for a women. I get nervous and i'm not sure I want or can handle the change a relationship will intail. Fear is normal. You get over it or you walk away.

That's my 2 bits. Good luck!

ps. i've seen some of your posts and I'd said there's nothing 'cheap' about you.