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Originally Posted by Mademoiselle Rouge  I've been to many doctors for help with being too tight and tearing. Honestly, doctors don't know a whole lot else to tell you than to use lubricant. I can't imagine a person not trying that before seeking help since its advertised all the time. Doctors that deliver babies tend to not understand how a person could be so tight since so many can push a baby through there.
Dolfette brought up vaginismus which could exacerbate the problem. Based on the OP's vaginal pics i can tell she has the same problem i have...a very tight opening that gets raw and possibly tears with sex making it very uncomfortable during and especially after sex. So then you hold off a few days in order to heal up and then when you have sex again it does it all over again.
I did create a post that had some suggestions in it that have helped us immensely. I don't think we need to get all crazy about seeing a doctor about it because i know of no gynecological diseases that would cause one to suddenly become tight or the symptoms of a particular problem is being tight. We aren't talking about bleeding or pain during intercourse where the cervix is located. We are talking about the type of discomfort when you swallow a pill thats way too large or it goes down sideways- its simply a structure that isnt stretching enough to allow for painless entry.
It really sucks to be built this way in general but its even worse to be paired with a girthy guy. It's a huge curse. help! |
Hi there
Do you have some idea what size in girth (and length if that's relevant) starts to be uncomfortable and likewise what size starts to be very uncomfortable ?
Of course you can't do anything about what size your on the receiving end of but maybe it would help to give some idea of the size that starts to go from slight to major problem.
I would think that with all the women in the world your situation would not be that uncommon if not often heard about.
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