dicks too big for me

Hey Music,
Being a man I have no vagina. But I have experience orchestrating a large penis inside a tight vagina, (Get it musicchick, "orchestrate", cuz you're music... chick... haha, oh man). So anyways, you have to talk to the guy, and make sure you are on the same page. He needs to be prepared as much as you do. If he is just looking to bust a quick nut, just blow him and have sex later. For this to work, you and him need to be patient and work together. You have to go slow, very slow, and preheat that oven. Get the pussy as wett as possible and then lather on as much lube as you can, line up the equipment in a position where penetration can be controlled easliy, and start slowly. Fingering may help first also, but when it comes time, he will need to line up the head of his cock on your pussy lips, and take his time. This can be hard because he might have to spend the first thirty minutes working in the first half inch of his cock, which takes a lot of self control, a really hard erection, and patience. Slowly but surely, if you two are on the same page and are focused on the goal it will work, and it shouldn't be too painful if done right. The human body is built to accommodate, you just have to realize that the pace of your body and the pace of your sex drive are different, and if you are trying to accommodate for a big honkin dong, you have to slow down and let your body catch up, otherwise it will feel painful, and will probably be a negative and frustrating experience.

In my opinion the reason that so many women have a hard time fitting men with large dicks is not their fault and rather the fault of the men. In some respects a man with a large penis trying to fit in a small vagina needs a higher sexual IQ for things to work right. If he doesn't have the control, patience, and energy to focus all of his energy into merging his big cock in that tight vagina, he will probably end up hurting the girl, and forcing a halt to the sex. The girl is the easier one to place the blame on because its so easy to say "Oh she couldn't fit me" but really, most women can accommodate most sizes IF the man is willing to play along.

Hey! how about just finding a guy with less than 6 inches? See how that might feel more natural. ..and lube it'.

Try finding a guy with a small dick to practice with!

TC

LMAO

Honest. Try one that fits you. There's no rule you have to fit in a big cock. If you can't, you can't. It can be a very painful experience if you try and it might put you of having sex for quite a while.

Some of this advice is really really bad !!!!! do you have regular pap smears if so talk to your doctor then, and dont listen to the whole lube lube lube thing all you will end up doing is ripping and that will cause scarring which will make sex even more painful go and see your Doctor.

well sometimes the cause IS just dryness.
but yeah, some very dodgy advice.

Yes but the complaint is Tightness not Dryness there is a difference musicchick18 is complaining of being tight not dry she needs to go and see her doctor some girls are tighter than others simple as that.

Dear musicchick18,
I have a GF who is a transsexual (had his cock turned into a vagina surgically) and she has to dialate twice a week, which consists of taking a dildo and inserting it up her whazoo (vagina) and you leave it in for an hour and while in there, you try to work the dildo up into yourself so your depth increases as well as your opening expands. Of course you use plenty of lube so it goes in as easy as possible, but your are not fucking yourself with the ol' in-and-out motion. You're trying to increase the depth of your vagina andd you literally have to push your dildo up into your vagina to stretch it and hold it there.
Now she also uses what are called "stents" which are hard plastic rocket shaped dildos (no penis head) and they are marked every inch so that as you start with 4 inches inserted, you work to stretch your depth to 5 inches (kind of common sense) but it doesn't happen overnight. Now they give these "stents" to every girl who has the surgery so unless you know a transexual, you probably won't find these..maybe a doctor might be able to order them. Bottom line is you'll have to use a dildo and mark it every inch up the shaft so you can keep track. Push up into yourself only until it starts to hurt and back off a tad and hold it there until it starts to irritate you. Just take as much as you can but don't hurt yourself. And leave the dildo in for an hour..twice a week..she does hers on Mon./Fri. She uses the Cyberskin dildos cuz thet're the softest and you can still make progress with them. Best of luck..Oh, and when you clean the cyberskin dildos, rub powder on them, last thing, before you put them away..just regular white powder..it helps keep them longer..you'll see.

Mine will fit perfectly. Just send me a PM and we can arrange for a fitting. Just one session with me and this will no longer be a problem.

LongRod

i'm sure you've far more experience of tight, uncomfortable sex from the woman's point of view than i could ever have.

vaginas are elastic.
so lube DOES make a difference. without lube things will have trouble sliding over and stretching. dry sex feels too tight.

yes, some girls are tighter than others but that's almost never a serious issue.

the most likely cause is vaginismus, which can be treated.

the suggestion by some that her doc will open her up will just scare the shit out of her.

Yes i do have more experience of the tight uncomfortable sex from the womans point of view.My partner and i have sex 3-5 times a week 95 % of the time i can only get the head in and 2 inches of the shaft because of my girth we have been together for many years and SEX IS PAINFUL AND UNCOMFORTABLE for both of us a lot of the time because she is small and i am larger than normal but she loves an orgasm and so do i and after all these years she has not stretched and her doctor told her she wont stretch that the only way to fix this is to change partners because a small vagina was not designed to take a very large penis no matter how much lube you use.

the OP did not say large. she said most.

and, while that really sux for you, you've not experienced the sensations.
it is entirely possible for lack of lube to be causing that sensation...that it's not the cause in your partners case does not alter that. it's a simple thing that's worth investigating.

Oh and one more thing and she should go and have a regular pap smear and talk it over with her doctor and if you advise against that you are wrong,it is wise to have a good trusting relationship with a doctor and have regular checkups because as a woman you should know cerviacal cancer kills thousands of women every year.

have i advised against that? at any point?

and, speaking as someone who's mother had cervical cancer, i think i MIGHT be aware of the risks.

but really, how dare i suggest that there are less scary outcomes than having a doc open her up. god forbid someone tell her the most likely causes, so that she's not terrified when she sees her doc.