Pee shy - stage feaver

None of my friends are circumcised, in my country (Belgium) is it rare to do that. Sorry, I don't belive that it has to do with that.

Being pee shy is by no means uncommon, as others here will no doubt tell you, and there are plenty of guys who suffer in silence, guys for whom using a public toilet is a major sourcec of unwanted anxiety. However it's a problem which stems from the workings of the vmind rather than any pysical cause. The brain is the most powerful organ in the body and we sometimes underestimate its power. I didn't quite understand the connection you seemed to be making though between being pee shy and your sexuality. I'd have thought the two were entirely separate, unrelated issues.

Then it's something else psychological.

I know that uncircumcised men in a largely circumcised society are more likely to get pee shy.

You don't look under-endowed judging by your pics.

Can you think of some other reason why you would be ashamed of showing your cock? Were you raised in a very puritanical household?

Thinking of something sexual often works for me whenever I'm pee shy. It doesn't involve the environment, though, as I don't find bathroom sex terribly appealing. Doubtless there's some hidden meaning in that. lol

It's like I said before: the pressure. I have the feeling that I don't want to be the last person that leaves the toilets. Also when other people has to go, you're in a hush and that don't work either.

I'm still suffering from bashful bladder syndrome. I agree that it's "pressure to perform" for me, and knowing ahead of time that I won't be able to pee if someone's next to me, it makes it worse. Luckily, I have great bladder capacity. I find that if I wait till I'm almost bursting, I can easily release my bladder and once it's "running", then I'm all set.

Any others out there who routinely will pick a seat in a restaurant in view of the men's room area so that I can figure out when it's empty? Then I will quickly walk to the men's room and quickly start peeing. If someone enters, it usually doesn't matter since I've already "calmed down" and am successfully relieving myself!

I tried peeing after a movie today where there were no dividers. Stood there for about a minute - nothing. A little kid had already come and gone. So I tried the "subtracting 7 from 100" routine, and it worked. Whee. Wee.

I ride my bike back and forth to work. Thursday night I was about 3 miles from home and knew that I had to make a stop to pee. There was a baseball field coming up and I decided to use the restroom there. There were 2 different games in progress, so I knew that I wouldn't be alone in the mens room. I had to bring my bike into the bathroom, and the only way I could watch it was to use the urinal with the bike right beside me. A guy came in right after me and washed his hands at the sink 2 feet away. I was happily surprised that I was able to release the flow after only 10 seconds with him standing right there.

Pee shyness is something that we can condition ourselves to get over. In my case, I had to convince myself that there was no logical reason for having a problem. It's just a matter of relaxing enough to release the flow.

I have to admit I some times have this problem at urinals...nothing to do with size or any thing in my case or been ashamed...

I never have this problem when I am in the corner of the urinal but in the middle with guys next to me..

its pretty awkward when you go up for a piss nothing comes out and you just stand their waiting..waiting...waiting then go and wash your hands and act like you have pissed haha....a few times smart ass guys have even say stuff lol I remember one guy goes bit dry their brother...I was like why are you looking or something along those lines shut him up pretty quick haha

It is defiantly something with you brain thinking it up...usually the best approach is to piss when i am bursting to go that usually works even if their are guys basically squashing into the urinal for space...