Dating married men

marluc · 05-01-2008

LOL yeah right yngjock20

marluc · 05-01-2008

I once dated a married dude and it turned out to be disastrous. I should've left him behind before it too personal. the sex was great though.

Charles Finn · 05-01-2008

what can i say married men make great bottoms.
I have done so many married men i get the group rate.
when i was 18 i fell in love with a married man he was 30 married with 2 kids he left his wife for me we were together for 5 years.
if you want to know more message me

bi_toddca · 05-01-2008

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Originally Posted by Charles Finn

I have done so many married men i get the group rate.

Too funny - have we played before? We all know there are plenty of married guys out there. I personally try to focus on other married guys when looking for a trick. It helps to keep expectations in sync. But I'm completely open to other possibilities Charles.

Charles Finn · 05-01-2008

most of the married me I have been with have been friends

Praxus · 05-01-2008

My female friend dated a married guy for several months, not sure how it ended though. My ex wife had been dating a married guy, but she took a job on the other side of the country so I havent' heard how that one's turned out. Sex with a married person is often out of loneliness and the need for human contact. Rarely are there couples who have that open relationship which can survive sexual tryst without one sucumming to jealously.
If you're a spiriitual person, you know it's just plain wrong along most religious beliefs.
So, it's like most things, buyer beware and know ahead what you're getting into.

Primal_Savage · 05-01-2008

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Originally Posted by Charles Finn

most of the married me I have been with have been friends

Like you, 2 of my 3 f...buds are married. We've all been friends and bi-sexual for over 12 years. Our Thursday boi's night out get togethers haven't ruined our friendship. Reading over the posts in this thread it seems as if a lot of the strictly gay guys are looking for some type of commitment. Over the years, I've had sex with several married guys. If you're doing it purely for the sex because you're both sexual beasts and you're practicing safe sex, I could care less about moral or ethical issues, much less jealousy, and other non-sexual emotions.

Ms.Teacher · 05-01-2008

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Originally Posted by unabear09

neither....if someone is married (male or female) i'm not going to do anything beyond having a friendship with them

Those are my thoughts, and even if he's not married, but in a relationship, it's a definite no-no. I don't ever want to be the "other woman" or the woman that broke up a relationship.

What context are you using the word "trick"? I'm only familiar with that word being used in a sex for pay type of situation i.e., a prostitute's trick.

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Originally Posted by Primal_Savage

Like you, 2 of my 3 f...buds are married. We've all been friends and bi-sexual for over 12 years. Our Thursday boi's night out get togethers haven't ruined our friendship. Reading over the posts in this thread it seems as if a lot of the strictly gay guys are looking for some type of commitment. Over the years, I've had sex with several married guys. If you're doing it purely for the sex because you're both sexual beasts and you're practicing safe sex, I could care less about moral or ethical issues, much less jealousy, and other non-sexual emotions.

This is such a depressing post.

It will make many of us wonder if our partners are cheating on us. It's kind of sad that you see nothing morally or ethically wrong with what you are doing. Unless their wives know about it and are okay with it, yes, it is very wrong. I feel very sorry for their wives, but you obviously could "care less"; it's kind of cold and heartless.

ZOS23xy · 05-01-2008

I've dated married men and women as long as its okay with their partner. Its primal sex and not a relationship.

A women who loves me since we were in our 20's will not sleep with me because she knows and likes my wife. She said she couldn't deal with seeing her afterwards.

bigdicksarebest · 05-01-2008

Suck fuck send them back to the wife

DC_DEEP · 05-01-2008

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Originally Posted by Ms.Teacher

Those are my thoughts, and even if he's not married, but in a relationship, it's a definite no-no. I don't ever want to be the "other woman" or the woman that broke up a relationship.

What context are you using the word "trick"? I'm only familiar with that word being used in a sex for pay type of situation i.e., a prostitute's trick.

"Trick" is the same as "one-night-stand," whether money is involved or not. It's a strictly sexual encounter.

ZOS23xy · 05-01-2008

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Originally Posted by Charles Finn

most of the married men I have been with have been friends

My wife wonders why I haven't found another fuck buddy. I guess living in the middle of no place doesn't help. Still, it was great when I did have one.

Ms.Teacher · 05-01-2008

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Originally Posted by DC_DEEP

"Trick" is the same as "one-night-stand," whether money is involved or not. It's a strictly sexual encounter.

Thanks, DC. I've never heard trick used in that context.

Primal_Savage · 05-01-2008

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Originally Posted by Ms.Teacher

This is such a depressing post.

It will make many of us wonder if our partners are cheating on us. It's kind of sad that you see nothing morally or ethically wrong with what you are doing. Unless their wives know about it and are okay with it, yes, it is very wrong. I feel very sorry for their wives, but you obviously could "care less"; it's kind of cold and heartless.

As depressing as the divorce rate in this country?
As depressing as all the MF affairs that are currently taking place this moment?
Cold and heartless? WTF cares. Life's too short. Enjoy it. Get off your rightous, bully pulpit!

gjorg · 05-01-2008

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Originally Posted by Ms.Teacher

Thanks, DC. I've never heard trick used in that context.

It's a gay thing!

I should clarify; My friend is repeatedly seeing the same married man, not dating (thats so 50's,60's str8--like going steady). They are having a good friendly relationship with great fucking. Neither of them would be upset if this feel apart! Basically they are just enjoying the moment here and now.
I guess my point was that most str8 guys get off and go, most don't realize that they are gay. If you know your gay and admit it why not let the wife go. (pssst! I did)