What do WOMEN want?

Oh how very true... but the OP was what women really want so I choose to write what I know.

I was once in a conversation where one friend of mine kept asking every guy he knew... " so, do ya suppose there is such a thing as a woman who will do ANYTHING you want?"


And one of my other friends came up with this response, " well, of course... just about any woman will do anything you want....

...But just that ONE thing.... so you better choose carefully..."


Honestly... I think women in general are amazingly indulgent of Men.

Here is ther real secret..Men are you ready?
Get pens and papers at the ready because you will need this in the future.

It is the tiny little things that women notice and treasure.
Holding a door open, a cup of coffee in the morning, loading the dishwasher.
Hosing the car down when there is dew on the car windows.
Running a bath for her.
It is these small gestures every day that tell her that you respect her, love her and that you notice her.
These carry more weight that the grand gesture once a year.
But please note...
These gestures only carry weight if you do them because you want to do them.
There is a huge disapointment in a womans heart when she has to remind her man to care about her.
Sure ask her what she likes but then remember.
Belive it or not MEN,
your womenfolk spend a great percentage of their day figuring out ways to please you.
From sex, to the meals they prepare for you to making sure you have clean and beautifully ironed clothes to wear to work every day.
Remembering jokes and little stories to make you laugh and smile.
Another important aspect is apprecation.
Say thankyou to her.
Gather her up in your arms and kiss her and tell her that you are grateful for what she does and how much time she spends.
That speaks to a womans soul and touches her heart like nothing else will.

Women just want shoes. It's in their genetic wiring. Anything in addition to shoes is just icing on the cake.

i was going to argue with you but damnit if that's not true.

What do womken want ?
What have you got? Well they want that.
What haven't you got? Well they want that too.

Getting closer - It's often what you haven't got that's interesting

Hope you meant "doesn't"

Sure did

That's funny - I want someone who doesn't expect a cuddle to follow every fuck! I mean I like a post-coital cuddle - but sometimes I just need breakfast! (Which he can make while I'm in the shower - fortunately he's a good fuck and a good cook )

For someone who is clearly not thick you have some funny and rather old fashioned notions.

Don't you think for a minute that women make the same kind of sacrifises you list above.

Going to his parents for Christmas.
Going along to 'help' him pick a car even though you know every opinion and comment you make will be overruled.
Going out with his work colleagues.
Giving up her carreer to look after the kids because it makes sense as he is the higher earner.
Not wearing that dress he doesn't like. (read, general clothes related compromise - he wants her to look sexy but not too sexy )
Having sport on the TV all day saturday.*

Now thoose things are actually as sexist and unreasonably generic and as unlikely to apply to many couples as your list - but I still think a lot of women will identify with them in the same ways men will identify with your list.

The thing is relationships do often end up being about compromise and what you appear to be suggesting (maybe I am wrong) is that men compromise on all those social things and women 'put out' in ways they don't want to. Holy fuck! What centuary (and decade) are you living in?!?

Women and men (and men and men, and women and women in gay relationships) make sacrifises for each other - make compromises together when a middle ground needs to be found. Do you think male gay couples have none of the issues on your list? I'd love to hear from a few gay men on that. And men withhold sex or certain sexual acts from women. My ex was very particular about the circumstances of when he would and would not give oral and what I had to do in order to 'earn' it (a game which I did NOT enjoy playing and never reciprocated by 'rationing' anything for him - though maybe I should have).

I just can't believe you think this only works one way.

And if a guy really does not want to marry and have kids then he sould not do so. I know women who don't want to marry and have kids, and guess what, in relationships where he wanted that and she didn't the women have said 'sorry, I don't want that' and moved on (and not tried to force him to live her lifestyle). It's called knowing what you want and acting on it.

* Of course with my ex the sport thing was me wanting to watch and him not - but he whinged on about it so I gave up after a few years. some proof towards the fact that neither my list (nor yours by extension) is exclusinve to men or women.

I know you were joking but seriously YES! No woman, or man, is the same and 'we' all like and dislike different things and in different ways!Anyway, it's fun finding out!

And Rugbypuppy darlin I would swap all the chocolate and shoes for a lifetime supply of free books and bacon sandwiches! (And lots of great sex of course!)

Anything but having it up the arse. How is a chick suppose to get turned on by a guy doing it up her arse. I wouldn't even let Brad Pitt go there LOL.

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Know life is an adventure not a chore.
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