Ideally, I would always like to have the biggest dick in the room, and I agree that most men would like that too, but I think it is a matter of importance. For some guys, like you, it is very important as it is a significant chunk of their perceived masculinity. For me, it isn't all that important. I'm not necessarily saying that makes me any less shallow than you or even less competitive. I assure you I don't know many guys who are more competitive than I am.
Yeah, back in high school and college I compared dicks with many of my friends and teammates. I was always the thickest, by a good margin usually, but never the longest. I generally didn't feel much pride in being the thickest or shame in not being the longest. That just isn't where much of my competitive nature lies. I don't really feel a need for a guy to know that I have a "bigger" (thicker, really) dick than him. Rather, I felt, at least among my teammates, a need to know that I can land a puck tape to tape better than anyone else, and knowing that I am the go to guy in a tight situation. And yes, I very much enjoyed leaving an opponent crumpled, moaning, and preferably, bleeding, on the ice, after a good, hard hit. I'm not sure that’s any less shallow than getting off on having a big dick. As I said, that's just where my competitive nature lies. |