what do you do with your penis when you're getting penetrated?

i've always wondered what others do when they're having sex with their partner. obviously when you're doing the penetrating, you're cock is busy...but what about when you're "receiving?"

usually when we start i'm rock hard and stroking it, but then as we get into it, i lose my boner. does this happen to anyone else? i dont lose the sensation, i just get soft. around the time when my bf is about to cum, he'll jerk me off until i blow my load.

My bf loses his erection after about a minute of fucking him with my strap on. This has happened with every guy I've fucked (15). I wonder if anyone can keep their erection. Interesting question, I'm looking forward to reading the answers.

Unless I'm stroking it or my partner is, I go semi-soft while being penetrated. I think it's mostly a matter of focus. I really enjoy being penetrated and tend to focus on those sensations rather than my dick.

I stay hard, and either stroke myself or my partner does. Penetration, I think, just makes me harder.

It depends on my horniness, our position, his abilities and size, etc. I like to jo during penetration and cum while being full inside. If I get on top, this is easier for me, but not always for him. A good compromise is doing it on our sides, preferably the right side since I am left-handed that way.

Same here. I love to get fucked and to just enjoy it as it's happening!

When I bottom, not only do I not lose my erection, but most of the time, I will ejaculate without stimulating my penis.

I guess everybody is wired differently, I can't imagine not staying rock hard and close to cumming when a finger or toy is being pushed up my rear, even without any prostate contact. Add some prostate pressure on top of it and its really hard for me not to pop. Never had a real dick in my ass but would like to try it someday, not sure if it will every happen thou, my butt is really tight.

I stay hard. My favorite position is reverse coyboy. I thing it's the bouncing that keeps me up.

Sorry about eht typo--think, not thing...another Freudian slip...

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Whenever my wife fucks me with a strap on... I stay rock hard and have to concentrate to not cum too quickly. . .

I like to start sucking my guy, it gets me hard. When I'm working his (large) cock into my ass, sometimes I lose my erection. Once I get used to him I like to stroke my cock. He says my ass is so good and feels so tight sometimes he doesn't last too long. Other times he wears my ass out. I like to cum before he does; then he's using me to cum and I have to take it until he does.

I usually lose it when I'm being penetrated; in fact I usually tell guys to not touch my cock because I would prefer that they concentrate on my ass and also my nipples. My least favorite position is lying flat on my stomach because the friction always causes me to get hard and cum. Also, I sometimes get hard when I'm giving head, I usually find it to be a distraction and a nuisance.

When I've fucked guys with my strap on (I won't share the number), most lose their erections. But if I stroke them, or they stroke themself, they get hard and can cum.

Several have cummed with no direct cock stimulation.

When a guy is fucking me and my BF is fucking him, he usually stays hard as a rock, but we have to watch or he'll cum too fast.

The guys at work tell me it's a natural occurrence for most of them, too. (We talk about lots of crap flying over water.)