Exotic Dancers

What do you think of going to the strip club?

How many of men here enjoy the experience?

I for one enjoy going to the local strip clubs. The atmosphere is exciting to me. I enjoy the dance music and i like hanging on my husband and being one of the women there who isnt bothered by naked women in front of my man. My husband on the other hand doesnt enjoy it as much. I think it's because his choice in women is so picky that he doesnt find the fake boobs, overly tanned bodies and bad dye jobs to be so attractive.


Do you ever go up to the stage and spend cash?

When my favorite stripper gets on stage i go up there and give her money. She enjoys the female attention and i get to touch on her unlike the men. I don't spend much money. Generally the pitcher of beer for my husband costs more than what i spend on the dancers.


What type of dancers are you drawn to?

I like the dancers that arent surgically modified. I think there are a half dozen or so that i find attractive because they are unique. Whether they have short hair, a little more body fat, naturally large breasts or odd piercings. There is a gothic stripper that i love to see. She makes awesome money and has a no non-sense attitude. When she gets on stage the audience in captivated. The music is always very hard metal or NIN when its her time to dance. I also enjoy the black women because they are curvier and i love to watch their fans go crazy when they get on stage.

Do you ever get lap dances?

I've never had the guts to get a lapdance. Mainly because i don't want to be the center of attention as a guest in the establishment. It would be a little awkward for me.

Do you know anyone who dances or used to dance?

I dont personally know anyone. I've considered learning some technique and getting some stilleto's and practicing at home. I have a lot of outfits i think would work for the scene. But i do have an original look and stray far away from the cookie cutter girl look. Many women start to dance when they are young and end up quitting by the time they are my age (28).

My husband is considering letting me because he knows that i could master the business side of it by marketing to a target audience. It's just a job to me. A job that can tap into my already sensual side. I figure if i make homemade videos on xtube and do contract nude modeling the least i could do is be making money at it.

I work a physical job already, self employed, and i'd like to try it if i could master some skills before ever treading foot in a club as a hired dancer. I thought i'd get some feedback from the ladies and gentlemen here about their thoughts about exotic dancers, clubs and how they are attracted to them/the ladies.

Feel free to follow up with any of your additional thoughts.

I don't go to clubs but my gf used to be an exotic dancer. She has a stunning figure and is not surgically modified. Keeps herself in beautiful shape and is exceptionally well groomed and manicured.

She said she made "quite good money" as a dancer, butter than any job she could have had. But as my partner she's now wealthy and manages her own investment portfolio, so she no longer has to work for a living because she's financially independant.

Well, MR - since the men will not bite I will try to lure them out...

OK, although it's not really something that trigger me. Have just been at clubs 15-20 times with customers in order to get a deal and twice at male strib clubs with girlfriends

Nope

Female - athletic types that know how to move and dance
Male - well, the size of the bulge does matter - and I've still not seen a guy really been able to move his butt in an erotic way

Nope

Nope

Darn it - tigger just beat me to it

TinyPrincess

My gf is 24, black, stunningly beautiful and ravishingly sexy. Moreover, she's beautiful inside as well. A Lady Diana type of person.

When I met her three and a half years ago I knew instantly she was the girl for me. It took me a few months to convince her that I was the guy for her. We now have a wonderful relationship. Best one of my life.

I like going to strip bars but after about an hour I get bored, yeah looking at tail is cool but I enjoy the hunt of meeting a girl and talking to her then trying to see the goodies.

[quote=Mademoiselle Rouge;1438548]What do you think of going to the strip club?
I have gone to strip clubs with male friends. What is the point of a strip club without breasts or bad boob jobs..really, the strip club here there wasn't anything there over a c cup. I had a few (alot) to drink so I just had to stand up and show the girls what breasts over a c cup looked like, I then put them away and I finished my drink.

Do you ever go up to the stage and spend cash?

I have been pulled up onto stage bu male strippers. Looking demure and shy works a treat in getting their attention, even without slipping money into their G-strings.

What type of dancers are you drawn to?

Natural girls with bigger breasts and who are fit and can move.
Guys - Smooth, buffed and tall who can dance.
Do you ever get lap dances?

Nope

Do you know anyone who dances or used to dance?

I have been asked to be an exotic dancer but I guess I never seen it as option.
I have stripped to music and put on a show for partners as a prelude to sex to add a little spice.

But all in all, Strip shows don't do anything for me.

I had a friend a while ago who danced, I think if you can keep it just a job its one thing, but so many of the girls get into doing sexual favors for money and doing all kinds of drugs since its just part of the environment, that I think thas wut makes the sad stories.

I think most girls who do it have a reason to be doing it. My friend did it cuz she got kicked out of her parents house, moved in with her prick boyfriend, and when they broke up and he kicked her out, she had nowhere to go and no job. So, she started dancing.

Jen

Hmm, not many guys have replied to this one . . . I guess I'll toss in my answers.

What do you think of going to the strip club?

How many of men here enjoy the experience?

I've only gone a few times, but I've never really enjoyed it. I mean, I appreciate the eye candy parading in front of me, but most of them don't get me hard at all. I guess the fact that they are dancing in front of so many men, infers to me that they're not that into it. I need some real emotion from them. I jack off to porn, but I guess with that I can easily fantasize about how <i>I'm</i> giving her a great fuck.
With a strip club.

Do you ever go up to the stage and spend cash?

I don't think I've gone up on stage with a stripper. I've given money a few times for girls that I liked, but not much more than that.

What type of dancers are you drawn to?

Um . . . I'm into the dancers that I'm drawn to in real life. Not overly thin, not too fake (fake breasts are OK if they're not overly big), and have a great attitude on stage.

Do you ever get lap dances?

Nope, but I think I'd enjoy it more than just watching a dancer. Just never felt like spending the money.

Do you know anyone who dances or used to dance?

Not personally.

I used to work as a stripper when I was a student. I can't imagine going to see female strippers with my boyfriend. He isn't into that kind of thing anyway. I like to see male strippers with my friends, Birmingham seems to have emerged as the male strip capital of the UK, what does that say about we the women of Birmingham!

I have been to strip clubs...
Bachelor parties and the like.

But I do not like them much...

Don't get me wrong... I love to see the lovely ladies... but there is something about the male denizens of most strip clubs that simply depresses me.


My wife and I once went to a club with another couple...

All around beautiful nude women gyrating, serving drinks and doing lap dances...
When My wife and the other woman, fully dressed, got up to go to the ladies room... every guys in the joint craned their necks to watch the fully dressed women walk across the room.


In fact... I think that was the last time I ever went to a club.

Nail on the head time ... I think that's what puts a lot of 'normal' men off ... they don't want to be seen as part of the dirty mac brigade.

I think men who enjoy strip clubs are rather pathetic. Real men can`t stand being told to look but don`t touch.