Exotic Dancers

I've never attended a male strip show (for obvious reasons) but you are right, Birmingham (England) does seem to have an awful lot of them. Just how rude was the rudest one you've attended? You can tell me. I'm a Doctor.

I think you just made up my mind on the idea. When you mentioned up your wife and her friend walking across the room and all the guys rubbernecking to see a couple of clothed women. I happened to notice the same thing when i went. I never thought of it consciously but im sure it has something to do with it being eyecatching after seeing all the made up naked women for a few hours.

The type of men at the club i was interested in are mainly 18-30 with a few older men that stroll in there. I suppose there is this glamourous idea of what those places would be like to work in.

One thing that i've noticed in porn is that there are two types that earn some respect- the less is more types and the extreme fetish types. The typical close up brightly lit commercial porn might generate a lot of money but it generates little respect from the viewers.

Thanks to everyone for your feedback!

I know this isn't the typicial guy answer that makes all the frat boys cheer...but strip clubs are the most boring places on Earth
honestly it is like a resturant that will not give you food
why bother
I already know what naked women look like, and can find hotter naked women on the internet if all I want to do is look
so....why shell out the cash for a girl to talk to me, when the music is too loud to hear and the girl generally has the intellect of a lump of clay?

Y'know what I think it was....

I think the men all turned to look at the dressed women not only cause they looked really fine... I mean, dressed really well... but because they were more "real" than the women working the club...
The men knew they could not have the club women.... they knew me and my friend were going home with these two girls...


On the few occasions I have had to talk to women who work in clubs.... they seem to exude a real distaste for men...
I think working there... seeing only this one side of men... seeing especially the lonely and pitiful men... the raucous frat boy animal-like men...

I think it really has a detrimental effect on these women's view of men.
They seem jaded...
And those that don't seem jaded, seem to expect the worst from men... and often get it.

I wish it were not so... its fun to see their lovely forms... I have no moral objections whatsoever... I do not think less of the people who do it or are into it....
but the desperation of the men, the mercenary aspect to the women's feigned interest... the effect it seems to have on them both....

Its just doesn't sit well...

Makes me sad.

Amen.

I can't add nothing to that.

(not like me).

I've gone to a strip club a couple times with my boyfriend in my past because I like the girlies...he even got me a lap dance on my birthday. I enjoyed the lap dance but the actual dancing on stage atomosphere doesn't really do much for me. And whatever these dancers' reality is, I didn't like the feeling I was...I don't know..contributing to that. Just left me with a bad taste in my mouth. Haven't gone since and don't really care to.

I have gone to see male strippers a couple times when I was much younger...around 18-22 and that never did much for me either. I like looking at their nice bodies, but that's it and I can get that anywhere.

Sorry but it would be quite wrong of me to spill the beans on what happens, there are some husbands and boyfriends who would be quite horrified

Don't worry.

A girlfriend has already told me.

Sounds like .....errr.......fun.

(Damn. I should audition).

I was just pumping you a little (figuratively speaking).

It doesn't do it for me. I've been to a sex club twice, once when I was 18 just to see and then twenty years later to satisfy the curiosity of some clients in Paris. At least male strip shows seem like a good laugh.

The waitresses at one particular club are butchy lesbian looking women. I have no idea why.

I'm not into strip bars, they kind of bore me. I'd say I've gone maybe a total of 6 times in my life, 2 or 3 of those were with my wife. My wife is very attractive and would always dress sexy when we would go. She wore a little black skirt with knee high boots the last time we went and guys definately looked at her. The girls gave her more attention than me.

All in all though, most strip clubs are dirty crack-whore convention centers that disgust me....

You can tell us. We are all friends here.

No, I don't even tell my boyfriend. I come home from a strip show as horny as hell and he shags my brain out, only guessing as to what I have been up to

That makes it sound like you've been doing things with the dancers, and that's cheating, as far as I know.

I've never been to a strip club, and I'm not really interested. Seeing some of the girls here really enjoy the male dancers makes me think about becoming one, but I have a feeling I'd only be hit on by men.