What makes me an aggresive power bottom... Nature Vs Nurture

Hi All, there is something i have often wondered - actually i have lost many nights sleep pondering over this.........

What makes a bottom a bottom and a top a top? I consider myself a bottom (power bottom - apparently i have very very talented hole/s). Was i born this way or was i made this way? Is it genetic or is it something that i was made into? And tops, what is that all about - are hey sort of semi homosexual? Or is it relative - some tops must top other 'tops' right?.

Also i would like the comments from exclusive tops - what makes a great bottom?

Thoughts, comments & suggested greatly appreciated.

Submissive bottom here, in hindsight, always kinda have been, just feeling naturel and right.

Very versatile here...can't imagine being only a top or a bottom. Luckily my BF is the same way. I have to say to the comment about a top being more hetero...nah don't think so. You can be a top only and be completely gay. I don't have the answer to why some are aggressive and some are passive just like everything else in life it simply takes all kinds.

Don't be confused or try to pigeonhole yourself. You can feel more passive or aggressive depending on what you generally prefer, your mood for the day, or who you're with. A lot of long-time bottoms switch to topping and vice versa. A bottom can be aggressive (enthusiastic, bossy, power) and tops can be passive too (they just lay back and want to be serviced). Do what feels right in the moment.

In general, I'm an aggressive bottom. I want it fast, hard and long in as many different positions as possible. I'm vocal and enthusiastic. I like to be with an equally aggressive top. Everyone is different and tastes change over time.

I don't know what makes a guy top, bottom or versatile but here are a few of my thoughts.

I've only topped except for one or two times I tried bottoming with my bf which didn't last long as I found it uncomfortable. I had been feeling really horny and wanted to give it a go, but as soon as he was inside it just made me lose all my hornyness and I didn't even want to fuck him afterwards.

It seems like a much bigger step to bottom than to top from masturbation or straight sex. Also I pretty much like to be in control when it comes to sex, I know you can be in some positions, but normally it's more of a top than a bottom thing. Lastly, it's just more of a mental turn on for me for some reason.

so many bottoms, so little time