We all shrink and to be honest, nobody cares about how big your penis is flaccid. Some people will care about how big it is hard, but to be honest, it's not what you have but how you use it.

I'm sorry that you're embarrassed about it. I have about 3-4 thickish inches when flaccid but almost 8 when hard. I learned early on that the surprise on someone's face when it got hard was worth it. Those who choose you for your size rarely care about who you are, only how big your dick is.

Where do you live that you're embarrassed about being intact?

The male genital mutilation rate in the US has been dropping for some time, so there's a good chance you won't be the only one with an intact willy. Thank your lucky stars that you get to experience life and sex as a whole man, instead of a handicapped one.

Whatever you do, don't waste your life wishing you were something you're not, life is simply too short.