I like cocks, but I don't like guys.

Anyone else feel the same as me? I'm sure there are lots. I love looking at cocks and often fantasize about sucking another guys cock (I've spent LOTS of time sucking my own), but whenever there's an actual male personality attached I completely lose interest in sexual activity. Anyone feel the same way? If you wanted to try sucking another man's cock, how did you go about it?

there are a lot of guys here like that. youre in good company

I think that once you get to know many men who might be into the same kind of interests, on what ever level, you will find such a wide diversity of character and attraction, that you could find a man that would be comfortable to hang with and do your own thing. You might be surprised by who you meet, that will be comfortable to experiment with... I have.

Onan

welcome to the site! you're in good company here. I think its our facination with our penises that draws us to look and fantisize about other men's cocks. We know how much pleasure we get from our cocks, and want to know how to share our pleasurable experiences with others. also we like to 'put ourselves' in the position as the guy getting head of fucking or what ever....I'm rambeling on I know but hope you can understand what I am trying to say.

try a glory hole

how does one go about sucking their own cock?

I think I have in the past. I was pretty fascinated by other guys' cocks at school but never really wanted to do anything with them till long after that when I eventually did.

Maybe you just need to find the right type of guy physically/personality wise. Maybe say a bud you get on pretty well with in a typically "str8" kind of way but can have the occaisional experimentation with. (That's what did it for me - eg going camping and hiking with a curious mate of mine and trying things out). Or maybe, perhaps less likely maybe more of a fem guy? I don't know what might do it for you but it might be worth experimenting.

It's so much easier to be straight.

Straight guys (and girls) put up with stuff from their partners that gay folk wouldn't dream of tolerating.

So many allowances are made for the gender differences that don't count in a same sex relationship.

Better to marry a person of the opposite sex and just fuck with the others.

Or is that too mercenary?

Try shemales boss

couldnt have said it any better.. lol
id never engage in gay sex, or even foreplay, i have no desire to touch a man, i dont find them attractive, but something about a nice big fat dick, i love to look

Shemales look good but are possibly the most troublesome fucked-up people in the world.

Talk about drama-queens.

Great tits, often attractive, have dicks.

But so fkn confused.

Here's a voice of experience, talking.

STAY AWAY unless you want a murderous bunny-boiler from hell on your tail.

Open your mouth and put it in. Next question please.

I tend to agree with Saabman on the gloryhole idea. It might be a good place for you to start.
But in reality, spunkyboy2008 and onan-man came across with the better idea.
You have to start getting comfortable with your sexual self and not buy into rigid sexual stereotypes. Be yourself and find what feels best for you.
I'm going thru some of what you are and I'm realizing the lines of sexuality tend to blur and flow, it's not a graph and so easily defined.
BTW, your video was smokin' hot!!!!

"It's so much easier to be straight."

Um - possibly...unless you're gay to begin with ;-)

"Straight guys (and girls) put up with stuff from their partners that gay folk wouldn't dream of tolerating."

I'd actualy say the oposite. When we gays find someone worth tolerating - we give in a lot because of lot of gays are screwed up by society - so whats left in a lot of situations is marginal (look at my exes)

"So many allowances are made for the gender differences that don't count in a same sex relationship."

Um...maybe.....I find that being with someone of the same sex is in fact easier. Its taking a natural guy guy relationship - and then doing sex stuff...then adding in monogamy and little sting of love.

Better to marry a person of the opposite sex and just fuck with the others.
Or is that too mercenary?

I'd say to each their own.

Look - the big problem with thinking about someone of the other sex is that society has us all conditioned to a certain responce. WE think of guys. ICK. We think of girls - YUM.

For me - I had little preconditioning - and was told to love everyone.

*I* get...Guys - MmmmmM! Girls....meh.

I'd be gay - leaning str8 - but - I can't STAND women in relationships. Nag nag nag - me me me - what r u feeling what r u feeling

*sheesh* - not much - wanna wrestle?


What ---- what did I say!?

You might quickly discover that the you only like sucking your own cock after you try sucking another guy's cock, especially since you get the feedback of your own personal pleasure from self-sucking which is obviously not there when you suck someone else.

Most people that have ever sucked a cock and like it have not sucked their own, so they find sucking cock gratifying for other reasons that may not be particularly appealing to you.