Just posted on this somewhere else....but YES...I love anal play, but the wife has refused to go along anymore. She feels it somewhat unnatural and dirty for a man to be fingered or fucked. She has done it in the past and knows how much I enjoy it, though it has to be during the heat of passion.

During heated foreplay I long for her finger to at least rim my hole,and would love to be fingered or fucked, but she refuses. I've even taken her hand and placed it there in need of some attention and she got mad !

I once purchased a Anal Play instructional DVD and asked her to watch it hoping it would break some boundries. Nope ! I on the other hand am willing to do anything she asks, no boundries. But it doesn't seem to go both ways.