When its 2 big!!!!!!!

Hi

My first thread on here, i am curious to know if you guys get annoyed when u r wiv a girl and its just 2 big!!! Seeing the size of some on here i would be on edge if i came across 1 like ive seen on here. My point is that i like a good shag!!!!!, by that i mean really going 4 it, (headboard banging etc) but surely some of u guys cant do that cus of your size. I have had 2 tell a guy 2 take it easy wiv me, and that he couldnt fully insert it all, which i dont think he was 2 pleased. Is this a downside 2 being big??? Does this annoy u????

On the other hand i just want 2 say that it really turns me on seeing pics of big ones, and if i had 2 choose between small and big it would def be big

AMY xxx

Hi Amy, and welcome. I've been told to "take it easy there hoss," but I wouldn't say it is a real downside, and I certainly don't get annoyed or impatient with a woman who has doubts about taking my cock (it's usually about girth, not length). It is just one of those things that seems to be part of life, like having to buy big shoes if you have large feet. I think there's a definite positive side to it: I had to learn to be gentle and that has made me a better lover.

'with' and 'two'. This is a messageboard, not a mobile phone. fyi

It happens, not really so horrible most of the time.

Well said!

I agree with both of those quotes

Or he's just trying too hard to sound like an eighteen year old female.

Nah...that would never happen

I have been flat out told no once I dropped my pants, but that was in High School, more often I'm either asked to go slow, or fuck'er 'ard.

i need a rating of my dick anyone wanna help

wow amy... you're gorgeous. Well this has happened to me before ... if i just go too hard with some i'll bottom out and some girls have said it feels like getting hit in the stomach. But there have been others that could take it all no problem. I'm definitely not the biggest guy here though. funny thing is... the shortest girl i've dated (5'1) could take it all... and the tallest (5'11) could not, i always had to watch myself with her.... i didn't expect that! So i guess there's obviously no correlation there lol

It's rare I get told to hold back. For some reason I like that message though, so I am a sad puppy.

I don't like when they can't take it. It has ended what could be great relationships for me. And I have been told multiple times it feels like getting kicked in the ovaries or hit in the stomach when I go too deep too hard. And that just ruins the time. Most of the time it's ok and they can either take it or we just learn how to do it so we both enjoy it.

lol i mizt dis post m8. i no lol do u c?

The only couple times my size caused a girl to decline penetration were both college virgins.. they still liked playing with it though! =D Kinda shocking though to me since I know there are bigger ones.

It has its ups and its down (pun intended!)

I've had (or not had to be more accurate!) girls that are too frightened to let me even near them, and others that look at it as a challenge!

Generally I think I've been lucky though, I've generally ended up with girls who likes it a little rough, so I haven't had to hold back, although I have been told by an ex that she needed a day or two to recover! lol!

The big downside I would say is it's nigh on impossible to get a good blowjob! Just when you're getting into it, they complain of lock-jaw!