Originally Posted by Captain Elephant
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I've always been very conscious of the comfort of my partner. There is usually always trepidation at a
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Responding more to the validity of the question rather than the questioner:
I've always been very conscious of the comfort of my partner. There is usually always trepidation at a first encounter. I'd try to start off slow.
My wife is quite accustomed but I still go slow in the beginning. But it never fails that in the heat of passion I bottom out or go where no man should go. I hate to hear her express any pain or discomfort. I've even gone so far as to apologize before we even start.
Thats so sweet to apologize before you get started. That's actually quite sexy to think of my guy getting frisky enough to know he's going to possibly get rough enough to hurt me ahead of time. He usually doesn't apologize unless im moping on the toilet afterwards with a cold washcloth.
When you really love someone, you find a way to make things work. I think it's more intense to be madly in love, and have to go very slow, than to just bang a girl I don't care about really fast.
