Let me preface this by saying , I know I am not expert, but I am a swinger and I am around sex and sexual activity A LOT! We get to see and interact with hundreds of different people every year.

My life is surrounded by gay/bi and hetrosexual sex and activites. In the scene we are in, there really is no judgement on your sexual preference, just a mutual code to not broach on anothers preferences.

I disagree with the statement that a man who gets blowjobs from men is not bisexual. I think the definition "straight" is just that. They do not enjoy ,fantasies or participate in sexual activity with men, full stop.

I know many bi men and many straight men and we all have very frank and explicit discussions on sexuality and preferences.

The straight men express NO interest in men sexually, Not even as a reciever of head.

To me , I do not get off on women, period. No err ummm "why not I am horny" etc or " hell ,they are just giving me head."....nothing turns me on about women at all ( sexuallY) so sex or sexual activity is pointless...I am straight....I would definately call a man who enjoys arse rimming ( as stated) and blow jobs from men bisexual.

Honey