I have straight??? friend who has spoken to me about anal sex, I have had the descussion with both of them, to me gay is not the sex gay is the fact that two people of the same gender are attracted to each other, and they want to have hot fucking sex together, no more than a hetro couple. Being one who has had his tongue down the throat of many a straight?? man but this does not make them gay! my suggestion is they have fun together and explpore the sexuality!!! in every possible way, if he want to give her anal, then she should be allowed to do it to him. I told them to buy some toys and have some fun with each other. And dont knock it till you have tired it. Those of us who do enjoy anal enjoy it for a reason because it give us pleasure. Nothing wrong with wanting pleasure!