In reply to canleak's comment. When I asked my friend, he told me that he would never ask his Girlfriend to do anything to him in the rear & that she would probably just freak if he even suggested it. I don't know if he pleasures himself, alone, in that area, But I do know he comes around quite often & asks me to help him out. He does tell me, however,that he has great sex with his GF too. I guess it's just different. Also, I am the only one that he fools with of the same sex. Maybe that factors in too. Security & I won't criticize him.