Wife hates sex

K8

Do people honestly think it's an easy thing to just leave your spouse and get a divorce?

Surely an enormous amount of soul-searching should go into that before you throw away your marriage?


Maybe I'm wrong and have been over-thinking this for years!
Blimey charlie!

Give us a kiss then!

christina

ya know what yeah it is a very hard thing to leave/divorce the person that u thought that u would spend the rest of ur life with but a person can only take so much physical, emotionally, and mentally. There i no point in stayin in a relationship when it is obviously one sided. Iv been there i know. you try so hard to make things work and no matter how many things you do ad how good u do them its not goin to change. so whats the point in draging it out?

edman

Thanks guys, I certainly hope to resolve this, coz I certainly don't want to be wasting any more of my sexual prime years and find myself a 40 year old, depressed guy and resenting my wife in 10 yrs time.

Chupame

I think there's got to be a bigger reason than the "pain." There's a psychological problem here. She may actually hate sex, and if she does, what can be done about it? Maybe nothing.

I wouldn't bail just for that, but it would certainly cause a strain in the marriage. However, I would make it very clear that I'm not satisfied, and I wouldn't hide the fact that I can take care of my own business. Have her wake up a few times to your grunting, moaning jack-fest, and make a huge mess in the sheets, and maybe she'll clue in.

You might want to be blunt and ask her what she has to offer that you can't get elsewhere?

edman

Well we've been to see the counselor and she recommended my wife uses some dilators.
I hope this works, but as she (wife) pointed out, the biggest dilator is still smaller than my unit!
Guess we'll wait and see. I have to wait a couple of weeks until she can use the biggest one before we try intercourse.
Think I'll be ready to explode by then!

retracted

Are we to believe that you never tried to fuck her before you were married at which point her hatred of sex or very low sex drive would have reared its head?

What is it with women who play the femme fatale during courtship and then not only let themselves go physically but also turn off the sex tap?

If you're not getting what you want in the marriage then you should dump her ass. I couldn't imagine being with someone who bitched and moaned any time I tried to make love to them.

Then she has the nerve to get all uppity if you even so much as look at someone else! That really takes the cake. Honey, if you're aren't willing to hand over a slice, hubby'll go to another bakery.

New End

no edman, your wife doesn't hate sex....

..she just hates you.