How Long Are You Having Sex Until You Ejaculate

social propaganda?? this is a forum about penises, not an elective primary, and he was joking. relax.

I find from 20 to 30 minutes is just about right for me. At the last I really think about having a large load of cum, and I usually do. I think a lot of this is really in your brain and not in the head of your dick. My wife finds this is about the right amount of time for her. We usually both get our load off before we are finished.

This always bothers me. I can seriously last forever if I focus, but if I'm drunk I don't want to have sex. I then awake the next day hornier than ever. Ever!!!!

I'm a bit of the opposite, when/if drunk I can go even longer (probably dangerous, as they say never exercise when imbibed).

I usually want to shoot within 5 minutes, but just need to take a break (good time for oral or whatever) and then I'm good for an hour.

I've never used a stop watch while fucking - novel idea though. The time it takes me to cum depends on my partner and what she wants and needs as we make love. I'm going to get her off before I get off or at the same time if fortunate.

15 mins, i stay hard after cumming so everyone cums. I like to have sex multiple times, but no im getting divorced so maybe all this will change

It has usually been about two hours give or take from start to finish for me. It is frustrating to me to have women that expect me to cum in like ten minutes. I love to take my time and drag it out and enjoy their bodies and enjoy mine as well. i have had many women tell me to just take them when ever I wanted and as fast and hard as I could so I did when i woke up next to their hot, naked sleeping bodies and sure enough the liked it. Well, they loved it.
If things are strapped for time (kids going to be home soon)/something or something and it has to be fast, then i am all about making sure it is about quality. :)

Depends on how fast and hard I am doing it, I have noticed though that I used to be able to go for a long time but that is when I worked out and now I don't so it's gone down some in time; the first time I had sex I went for like 5-6 hours before I ejaculated. My wife cannot take it very long as she starts to get sore, but I also go longer when it's hot outside and it's warm in the room for some reason; I also could also go longer when I took ginseng, but ginseng is also good for having energy at work and not getting tired at work.

My husband used to count his strokes and continue for an hour or so before ejaculating.It never was fun because I never orgasmed with him.
I can cumm with a sensitive cock rubbing on my clit for about 10 seconds.
I dont live with my husband anymore

These days I can basicly ejaculate when I want. 10 seconds or 10 hours, doesn't matter.


It's partially because I found this mental technique, called the Tangerine Technique, while reading about this thing called Photoreading (nothing sex related).

Basicly what you do, is you imagine a tangerine (same as an orange, the fruit) in your hand, imagine the colors vividly and the detailed texture, and then put the tangerine a bit above the top back of your head, and let it float there. At first you might have to do the whole thing (first imagening it in your hand, then putting it above the top back of your head), but once you get the hang of it you can just imagine it on the top back of your head without putting it there.

Anyway, the point is, when you feel you're nearing ejaculation/orgasm, just imagine the tangerine floating a bit above the top back of your head, maybe make it twirl around. It totally shifts my concentration and if I hold that image too long (I'm talking minutes) I go soft, no matter who I'm banging or if I'm jacking off to the worlds best porn. It's not because tangerines are gross or something, they aren't, it's mostly because of the huge shift in concentration.

At least that's how I experience it. Might not work for everyone, but it's free, simple, easy and worth a try at least.

I don't know if anyone else has tried this technique while having sex. It's intended to clear your mind from any thoughts and prepare you for photoreading.


However, I usually like to ejaculate/orgasm several times. For me the orgasms get more intense one after another. And to me sex usually becomes boring after about an hour or two, unless I'm with some really experienced devious chick who's good in bed.

To be honest it varies for me, when i'm super hard and turned on i'm lucky if i last 15 minutes, but i when im just hard and not turned on mentallly i guess it can go from 30-45 minutes sometimes an hour depending upon if i'm wearing a condom or not but mind blowing good sex doesnt exactly mean longer sex..

if you know your woman/man's body and can get them to achieve several orgasms within a short period of time then that would be better than having long boring sex with almost no one achieving an orgasm.

Like with my girl she cums easily 5-10 times when im fucking her ass, now in her pussy takes a little magic on my part but since i know what she likes I start with some anal fingering play, some clitorial stimulation with my tongue finger her hard in both her pussy and ass until she squirts (which doesnt take long) then i proceed to HARD ANAL Pounding first to allow her to achieve several body shaking / numbing orgasms and then ill proceed to fucking her pussy... then end with either a anal creampie or Ass to facial..and she loves it regardless if its 10-15minutes or an hour.

Ways to prolonging sex like many will say is to start with foreplay.

also sexual massages are good too.

but i'm no professional just going off of my experience.

It all depends on who I'm fucking. Timing orgasms to occur simultaneously while keeping your partner at the brink of screaming are two mental exercises that modulate when it's time to let it go.

My longest session ever lasted about 1 h 15 min; could have lasted longer but she was beggin' for it. LOL

anywhere from 10 minutes for a quickie to a few hours. Usual is probably around 30-40 minutes with serious autoplow.