Fingering Urself

Is my prostate towards my abdomen or towards my spine? Or is it off to one side? I've never cum from fingering my self but when I got fucked about three weeks ago (for the first time...WOOHOO!)I came twice while he was drilling down on me...I was on my back.

straight guys do it? maybe one day i will try with my finger :)

just curious

Would you believe I've just started exploring this aspect of my sexuality??? What I'd really like is some helpful suggestions about how to clean the anus out BEFORE putting my finger (or anything else) in there. No matter how much toilet paper I use, I always seem to end up with shit on the finger/dildo/etc.

Any ideas? (and stop laughing, for Pete's sake! This is serious!!!)

You could try an enima I guess, although I've used them before sex and there's still a little dirty at the end of the act. Johnny Carson once told Milton Berle that he'd invented a new way to fuck and Milton Berle replied "No shit?" and Johnny said "...well...a little"

Yeah, I was thinking that must be what the porn stars do, 'cause their cocks always seem to come out reasonably clean, but I'm not that keen on enemae. I guess it's just a case of cleaning up afterwards...

Thanks for the suggestion, Cowboy.

towards your abdomen.....and andyo...lots of straight (and mostly straight) guys out there who are comfortable enough with themselves and their sexuality, have explored exploring the erogenous parts of the body besides their cock and balls....for most guys anal play (primarily prostate stimulation/massage) can lead to almost spiritual experiences that cannot match the pleasures of orgasm alone....many many countries in the world (esp. asian societies) found out 100's of years ago that the anus and the prostate are key areas of the body that when stimulated, can lead a man to bliss and states of mind that rival those created by drugs....in wwII, the government created devices that stimulated the prostate to the spouses of the soldiers, to prevent some sort of sexual back-up... men with prostate issues and have a family history of prostate issues/cancer are often told by Dr.s to have regular prostate flushes.... If you enjoy ass/prostate play, you enjoy ass/prostate play...nothing more and nothing less....it doesnt make you gay

I am a top but i hate that have to shit feeling so i stay very well cleaned out.
warm water in a enema bag hold only as much as you can repete untill it is clear

unabear--do you have an orgasm from a completely hard dick then? but without jacking it at all? just massaging the prostate? I always like the fingering as an extra pleasure, but never thought about coming without jacking or frigging, which I can also sometimes do with the grasp of cock underneath the balls (but usually save that till the last minute, and also squeeze and jack the top). So you're talking about having easy orgasms just from fingerfucking? This is brand-new to me. Thanks.

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Need finger-fucking advice as per above...

Bloody hell Unabear - you should run a day workshop! I'd pay to see and learn this stuff!

I'm now jealous, having no prostate (I can't complain really tho) at least you guys get to know more whats its like to cum from within a cavity like us girls totally enjoy!

I shall just go trim my nails then!
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This link is very good if you want to find out about prostate massage / milking.

The Ins And Outs Of Prostate Milking Or Prostate Massage

This site will send you a guide on how to massage the prostate.

Prostate Milking|Milking The Prostate

And this site is a step by step guide.

Step By Step Directions for Milking the Prostate

I prefer on my back. I use a lot of lube, and insert very carefully. As posted above, always make sure your fingers are clean and nails trimmed. Massage gently and you will blow a load like no other. If you feel better have your partner do it for you. Even more fun and your B/F doing it to you while youre tied up.

hey man. sorry for the delay in response....yes it is possible to have an orgasm thru prostate stimulation. the level of ease of orgasm via prostate stimulation varies from man to man...as the sensitivity of the prostate varies from man to man....josh

Thanks! This gives me something new to work at experimenting--I consider myself pretty virtuosic, but I am going to have to check this out as it seems I have been neglecting something that should be very easy to just do at leisure. I'm pretty virtuosic at various sex-yogis, so I imagine that this is something I would have discovered before if it was one of my best points. So the 'difference from man to man' may have long been at play here.

Nothing like the prostate! Whehoooooo! But don't neglect the anus it is a really fun area too. And if you get a little deeper there is the amazing feeling of the second sphincter that is also amazing.

There are devices especially for prostate masage...."Aneros" I think they are called. Come in different sizes depending on how experienced you are. I would suggest beginning with something a little bigger than the smallest one....kind of a waste of time I think.

In the drug store they sell small blue rubber "ear flushing" bulbs. Little things you fill with water to wash out your ears. They are perfect for giving your ass a gentle rinse. Just enough water to get rid of the last pesky bits. You might have to do it several times in a row to get reasonably clean. This works mostly with just your rectum as it does not hold a lot of water, but it does the trick in a simple way, is uncomplicated and quick. Narrow neck is easy to insert. Make sure the water is "balls warm" meaning that it feels good when squirted on your balls. This is a good way to test the temperature. If it feels good against your balls it will be ok in your ass. Won't lead to cramps etc.

Also, coupled with all the sensations of a good prostate massage is the gentle stretching of the anus itself. This can be a really great feeling too.