How long does your guy last??

so he cums? Tell him to suck it up and keep going. I cum multiple times over an all nighter and I dont miss a beat.

It's in his head, just tell him to take a minute as as soon as it doesnt hurt to fuck just go right back at it. He'll naturally get softer but most of the time if he gets to fucking you hard enough he will get his second wind just fine. At least if he is like me? I bet he is.

Has he tried thrusting slower to drag out the stimulation as well as switching up positions to buy some time between them? That should give you at least a little more fuck-time.

I can generally last as long as I want to, and it's quite rare that I feel the need to blow before she wants me to. I do like to get off after about 30-45 minutes either way though. Otherwise you get all cramped and it's not really enjoyable anymore. The other thing too is that I have a tendency to get a charliehorse in my leg after going for too long. I've yet to figure out exactly why that is. Probably just a certain position.

It all depends. When the squeeze comes home from work, tired, hungry, and in need of affection more than sex I scrub him down in the shower, give him a back rub, and if he isn't into offering me his ass I roll him over and give him a good blow job (usually he blows in 7-9 minutes). After which I hold him until long after he's fallen asleep in my arms. Then there are those days he sends me a text message to make certain I'll be around for an afternoon siesta. These tend to be long, hot, sweaty sessions of love-making that last about two hours with both of us cumming a couple of times. Then he showers on his own and rushes back to work. Saturday and Sunday mornings we'll lock lips and make love off and on all morning into the early afternoon. During vacation we've been known to stay in bed for two days, constantly maintaining sexual body contact.

Someday, I'm going to be too old to keep up with him.

I think I'm opposite of most guys.

I have always lasted forever with girls I just dated or random chicks. There were even a few that would make me stop after an hour, without me getting off, because they couldn't take anymore.

However, with my girlfriend now that I've been in a serious relationship for 2.5 years, 15 min is average, at best. There are just as many that last only 5, that last 20.

Its so much more passionate, and meaningful, and that's a huge difference than just hate fucking a bitch, or pounding the shit out of a girl that you know will run and tell all her friends, and boost your ego.

SO don't take it out on this guy. Perhaps he really has a connection with you, and you have an unrealistic view of intercourse length.

3-5 minutes, an hour, it's all subject to interpretation. Maybe the hour long f*ck session, the guy is into the duration of it, he just likes to f*ck for hours on end ? The 3-5 minute man, he might simply be so into the pleasure that you take him 0-100-0 in that brief a time. If both got the job done, the equipment works obviously, but it's just a matter of what the guy's personal agenda/goal is.

Other explanations, the hour long guy may be more considerate, staying harder for longer for you to get off. That's a double edged sword, it can also last too long for some women. Then he might just be scared, that if he doesn't give you an hour of pleasure, you may go elsewhere for the other 55-57 minutes of f*cking ?

The 3-5 minute man, his interpretation might be that you want results quickly because your definition of satisfaction is knowing you can get him off in an instant ? Maybe he figures the foreplay should've been enough & that it's time to climax in that regard

Hard to say without simply just asking either guy ? Sorry to be so vague with this response.

Oh girl, pre-ejaculation is just plain no fun! I've had boyfriends that were anywhere from 4 to 9 inches and one that was over 10 inches long. My first bf was around 9 inches and I thought all dicks were that big. But then, he was 6'6" too so it fit his body pretty well - but I was all into waiting until I was married at that point so I wouldn't let him put it in me (technical virgin but I sure loved to get him off on my chest).

I've had guys that could get it right back up afterward for round two (or three or four). One guy came every 10 minutes or so but was right back up (not fun 'cuz he always came right before I really got it good). My ex-husband could go on for 2 or more hours but never was good for a second round unless there was a meal in between.

If a guy can't last at least 15 minutes then there could be a problem. Maybe he's just so used to jerking off (and not having a real girl) so he's never learned how to squeeze his ass and hold onto it.

I wish you luck! and no, 3-5 minutes is not the norm. It's way fast.

It is just nice when the lady can cum first. To me the goal should be getting your guy to last longer and maybe you being able to cum faster (good luck on that) With some women I have talked to.....oral on the female before sex but not too completion can help get her on the path to coming faster during sexual intercourse. Something to think about and try.

Completely depends on how tired I am AND how aroused I am; not to mention available time… Lets say that we are getting ready to go out, well… A ten min fuck session is all there is time for – Bend over while your doing your hair sweetie…

Other times I can go nonstop for an hour – and usually cum when I’m just too tired to continue. Don’t worry… at that point the girls are usually a pile of jello, still shaking from the residual effects of several orgasms…

I know how you feel about going from one extreme to another. You could say my ex and I explored everything sexual about us. She was up for anything at anytime. She loved to perform oral sex and she aimed to please.

Now with my current girlfriend it is the total opposite. It was a year between relationships, but I was still used to the ways me and my ex did things. My girlfriend now is not as experienced I guess and kinda reserved. It was very frustrating at first, but it has been a fun journey getting her to open up. Its great to be the teacher...LOL. We still aren't at the point I would like to be, but I can slowly notice the progress she is making. Soon she will be my little sex kitten.

Hey, at least your guy is showing you that you really do it for him.

I feel terrible for my g/f. Love her with all I am, but after 2 years of being together I still can't climax with her, even after hours of lovemaking, and she's been my only one.

Your situation could suck a lot worse.

You realise that is about 7 times? right? I have masturbated on average7 times per day, but sex the most I have was 5-6 times. And were with 2 different girls. So, with only one girl ( 3 times ) could not handle the next round. :D

I think you are approaching this from the wrong angle here.

It is very wrong to compare partners. All men are different. Their penises vary, they take different length of times to climax, they have different lenghs of recovery time before they are up for it again, some like sex more often than others, some like to spend more time in fore play, and so on. It is also worth remembering that some of these can be changed, some can`t.

you have had one partner who would penetrate and pump for an hour or more and that is what you have been used to and got to like. To me I would consider that to be boring as I like more variety. I don`t think that a partner that can penetrate and keep going for ages is the best lover, but one that is prepared to be adventurous and spend time pleasing me in a variety of ways is. I don`t know what sex with your ex was like, but in my experience guys who can penetrate and pound for hours do like to do just that. I think they and their partners are missing out, but each to their own.

The bottom line here is that you are unhappy with the situation. Does he know you are unhappy and unsatisfied? If not you need to communicate with him. That is not to say you need to criticise him, the key is to work with what you have got and build on it. Sometimes compromises have to be made on both sides

I just started a thread about a similar problem but from a male point of view:
Intense desire to cum

There comes a point after a few minutes of thrusting where the penis becomes desensitized and ejaculation requires extra forceful thrusts, I found that a long blowjob can help get to this point, otherwise be patient at the start when he is trying to control himself and tell him to start very slowly until he reaches that point.
The sexual position also can have an effect, missionary and other postitions which tense up muscles accelerate orgasm whereas you on top will delay it.

my boyfriend can last about 2-3 mins it is not enough but i have had many guy l;ast much much longer

Really? I thought it was because they would do the cum shot first after abstaining for days, and then film the pumping ect second time round.