Ladies, during intercourse have you ever gotten mad at a guy for jackhammering

in my book, jackhammering is one of those pain for pleasure sort of things. it hurts and it feels so good at the same time. i'm not going to encourage it but i'm not going to complain either. i understand that it's possible to get carried away in the heat of the moment.

I don't care for jackhammering but to each his or her own. Vigorous sex is one thing but I do not like having someone just pounding away on me and not take any consideration of how I feel. It happen to me years ago and I ended the relationship right after. He did have a large penis and it hurt. Luckily no damage was done but I still remember and think he was a complete bastard.

As orgasm approaches, my fuckbuddy almost always encourages me to go at it as fast and hard as I can, especially when doing it doggy. She'll growl "Use me, USE ME!"

Not that "jackhammering" is limited to men. She'll sit upright straddling me and ram herself on my cock fast and furiously for a long time.

One of the most amazing videos I've ever seen was watching Kapri Styles get on top of Mandingo and ride him furiously, taking ever inch of him.

I'd love to have a go with you

I do this mystical thing called "Listening". Hasn't failed me yet.

I like it hard and fast, but not too hard for too long.

I've had guys pound me so hard, I could tell I was nothing but a hole for them.
That didn't last long, if it didn't hurt, I would've whistled as it was so boring.

I am not a pleasure/pain kinda gal. If it's hurts, I'll dry up like the desert.

(*cue tumbleweeds)

Well, isn't that disturbing. Thank you for your contribution.

On a real note, how long is "too long"? Are these people, men, "pounding" for hours on end?

My girlfriend isn't as into pain as I am so I'll get complaints/gasps (the unpleasant kind) from time to time for going too deep/hard. It's a simple matter to back off a little. After awhile she seems to be more accepting, as it were, and when she gets close she'll sometimes tell me to go as hard/fast/deep as I want.

I can't say I've ever really been yelled at for anything, but it still knocks a little of the wind out of my sails when suddenly, in the middle of what is very pleasing to me, I see I've caused my partner even a moment of un-enjoyable pain. :\

I was with one guy who had mastered the art of seduction. Hours of flirting, kissing, touching. The build up had me panting for him. When he entered me he started jackhammering right away and kept going 'til he finished. Not cool and not remotely enjoyable for me.

It didn't hurt. It didn't do much of anything.

Zero class = zero repeats.

Happens almost everyday :) for every 100 good strokes there is one bad :)

So that's why... :/

Teach me!

I love it deep and hard, but fast and hard should be in combination with different strokes. Like a little while of deep slow grinding (fyi: always makes me cum ), few seconds of pounding, pull out and sink back in, go shallow and teasing for a bit, followed by nicely rhythmed fucking, etc., until she requests a certain stroke to cum or asks for harder. But never just bang it out unless you are sure that's her preference - like the woman in Hazel's post.

This pretty much describes my technique... I love to thrust slowly and deeply, using the full length of my cock, at an almost-teasing speed. I try to gauge what is working to make her writhe and moan, and go from there.

Oooh, "teasing speed", the OP should take note!
Imo, much better that a guy masters the slower stroke before ever attempting the "jack hammer".