03-24-2008
|
#16 (permalink)
| | | Quote:
Originally Posted by Dan the man Yes you're right, I should have just said that ONE woman is equating a big cock with masculinity and I generalised it. However MB, I'm pretty sure I've read here or elsewhere, other women mentioning the same or similar. So in my mind, I had already concluded that a lot of women who look for big cocks tend to equate big cocks and masculinity. And perhaps for those that do, could there be something deeper? Could this need for a man with a big cock to represent masculinity have anything to do with, say, a father figure that they never really had? | I know that in my case this isn't so. As I said, I have unconventional notions of "masculinity" and "femininity". As for a father figure, I always had that growing up. I was very close to my dad. | | | |
| |
03-24-2008
|
#17 (permalink)
| | | Quote:
Originally Posted by whatireallywant I know that in my case this isn't so. As I said, I have unconventional notions of "masculinity" and "femininity". As for a father figure, I always had that growing up. I was very close to my dad. | Exactly, you had a close relationship with him. So my theory is, and I hope I don't offend anyone, that a daughter who never had that father, because perhaps he ran away from the family or perhaps the daughter never even knew him at all, is seeking someone to replace that father figure. And perhaps a big cock reinforces that fatherly masculinity? Lol, I dunno, just one of my wacky ideas. Probably wrong. | | | |
| |
03-24-2008
|
#18 (permalink)
| | | Quote:
Originally Posted by Dan the man Yes you're right, I should have just said that ONE woman is equating a big cock with masculinity and I generalised it. However MB, I'm pretty sure I've read here or elsewhere, other women mentioning the same or similar. So in my mind, I had already concluded that a lot of women who look for big cocks tend to equate big cocks and masculinity. And perhaps for those that do, could there be something deeper? Could this need for a man with a big cock to represent masculinity have anything to do with, say, a father figure that they never really had? | Quote:
Originally Posted by Dan the man Exactly, you had a close relationship with him. So my theory is, and I hope I don't offend anyone, that a daughter who never had that father, because perhaps he ran away from the family or perhaps the daughter never even knew him at all, is seeking someone to replace that father figure. And perhaps a big cock reinforces that fatherly masculinity? Lol, I dunno, just one of my wacky ideas. Probably wrong. | Yeah - probably.
I can see a woman who had no father fighure looking for certain sociological characteristics and behaviours but I really can't formulate a scenario where cock size enters in to it. I can certainly think of one self-proclaimed size queen here who had and has a very good relationship with her father, though the fact she's a size queen doesn't necessarily mean she equates big cocks and masculinity. Dunno - you would have to ask the woman who posted that she does think a bigger cock makes a man more masculine about her relationship with her father. And then ask a whole 'nother group of women with similar opinions about their relationships with their fathers and then you'd have to have a control group of women with known 'father figure' issues and ask them about masculinity... really, it is quite an undertaking!  | | | |
| |
03-24-2008
|
#19 (permalink)
| | | Lol ok. Well anyway, forget the father thing, but going back to the original point, I'm sure I've heard SOME other women saying they look at a big cock as a sign of masculinity. For whatever reason that may be.  | | | |
| |
03-24-2008
|
#20 (permalink)
| | | Yes it is definately about power. I need a man to match my strong womanliness and so he needs to be able to be sexually dominant for me to yeild to him. If I don't feel his power then I cannot surrender my body to him. A small penis would just not work. Just like a weapon - I admire a bazooka more than a catapult. And it gets more done .
T
x | | | |
| |
03-25-2008
|
#21 (permalink)
| | | Amazon,
I think you may have hit on something here. I am also what you might call an amazon - a powerful, tall, curvy and confident woman - and one of the things I love about a big cock is the power it has over me. Quote:
Originally Posted by amazonlady Yes it is definately about power. I need a man to match my strong womanliness and so he needs to be able to be sexually dominant for me to yeild to him. If I don't feel his power then I cannot surrender my body to him. A small penis would just not work. Just like a weapon - I admire a bazooka more than a catapult. And it gets more done .
T
x | | | | |
| |
03-25-2008
|
#22 (permalink)
| | | Quote:
Originally Posted by Marlboro woman Amazon,
I think you may have hit on something here. I am also what you might call an amazon - a powerful, tall, curvy and confident woman - and one of the things I love about a big cock is the power it has over me. |
But time passes by and we are missing | | | |
| | All times are GMT -5. The time now is 05:36 AM. | |
Latest Threads | | |
Latest Posts | | |
Latest Blogs | | | |