Why Can't You Be Gay?

As reliable as the sun rising every day, gay men are going to meet straight men they would doing anything to have sex with. I have learned to give up immediately when in this predicament, but would like to hear how gay men on this site have tried, and possibly failed/succeeded, in converting a 'straight' man, even for a night. Straight women simply can't be that lucky.

If you believe straight men can be "converted," then you must believe that gay men can be "converted" as well. I'm not so sure I'd wade into that thicket!

personally ive never tried to convert any straight dude and i wouldnt want to.

Not interested in 'converting' guys. Once I get the inkling that they couldn't be interested, I pack it up and just get on with being a fun bud to be with, rather than a fuckbud.

Though I've had experience with some successful seductions, I know for a fact that they were teetering on the 'gay vs straight' fence. So all I did was show them why I was what they wanted at that moment rather than change them. Trust me: no one can be changed but some will allow themselves to explore what they are already interested in.

the only "straight" guys I've gotten lucky with, are the ones I was lucky enough to be with, when they wanted to try it out

Not interested in "recruiting" a straight person. It's one of those Myths that just won't die. After all, who'd want to get a blow job from someone who doesn't know what they are doing?

I understand your frustration, but good luck with the whole "converting" thing. Just think of how irritated gay rights groups get with Evangelicals thinking that homosexuality can be "cured." If you ain't gay, you just ain't gay.

my feelings exactly

A lot of guys are bi, possibly even a majority.

Sexuality is on a spectrum, and few guys are 100% straight or 100% gay. However society promotes hetrosexuality and many guys who are bi identify themselves as straight.

So yes it might be possible for a seemingly straight guy to have a gay encounter - but because he is bi, not because he has been converted.

man, quite a few I wish that were true of ...

Amen, brother!

Take that back man. I've fuck a gay man.. and am actively seeking sex with others.

I meant to say that straight women got all the hot guys when I was young.

Why do you believe this? It suggests that gay men's urges are completely out of control. Sure, I've gotten crushes on a few straight guys in my time, but I wouldn't "do anything to have sex with" them. (Frankly, I find most straight men kind of boring when it comes to sex.)

And you get all the gay ones I want. mmm gender confusion.. yay.