03-21-2008
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#16 (permalink)
| | | ...but it also depends on how far both want to go. The wealthy person may make the first move but not-as-wealthy person may say "hold on -- we need to do this instead" or "if you want to do that you have to do whatever first."
So...during my own self-therapy I realize that I can be a bit intimidated if I feel other people have more than I do so I try to leverage my own power in the only way I can -- be bossy and hard-to-get. Thank you Jovial.
Criminy, now I know why I was a psych major. | | | |
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03-21-2008
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#17 (permalink)
| | | Money makes small penis worries go away....  | | | |
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03-22-2008
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#18 (permalink)
| | | Rich: I escorted in college so I wad with a lot of very wealthy guys; including a several highly placed corporate executives.
Poor: Could be any number of others; never found it a stimulating part of foreplay to say "hey, how poor are you?" :-P | | | |
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03-22-2008
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#19 (permalink)
| | | I've dated 3 girls in my life who had millions of dollars in their bank accounts and one who made $70,000 a year out of college. I'm a dumbass, because I'm not dating any of them anymore. I don't even try for this shit, it just happens. Apparently I attract the upper crust. | | | |
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03-22-2008
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#20 (permalink)
| | | Quote:
Originally Posted by MCA I've dated 3 girls in my life who had millions of dollars in their bank accounts and one who made $70,000 a year out of college. I'm a dumbass, because I'm not dating any of them anymore. I don't even try for this shit, it just happens. Apparently I attract the upper crust. |
How were they in bed...did they like bigger or smaller penis? | | | |
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03-22-2008
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#21 (permalink)
| | | I would imagine that a rich person would tend to be worse...
because they assume that their money is what is holding a person to them, rather than their investment in time and attention.
I know a few folks hooked up with wealthy people... Its pretty much a one way street... they can and do demand whatever they want, and do not have to expend effort to meet what you want....
As such they tend to be selfish.... taken as a group...
Not to say that some rich folks aren't generous and kind in bed...
Juts that, more than any one else... they don't HAVE to be. | | | |
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03-23-2008
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#22 (permalink)
| | | I wonder how is sex with someone who ware gold chain instead of silver... I will sleep over this one tonite! | | | |
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03-23-2008
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#23 (permalink)
| | | Quote:
Originally Posted by Phil Ayesho I would imagine that a rich person would tend to be worse...
because they assume that their money is what is holding a person to them, rather than their investment in time and attention.
I know a few folks hooked up with wealthy people... Its pretty much a one way street... they can and do demand whatever they want, and do not have to expend effort to meet what you want....
As such they tend to be selfish.... taken as a group...
Not to say that some rich folks aren't generous and kind in bed...
Juts that, more than any one else... they don't HAVE to be. | Never had the experience of it but I would think Phil is right here. I would think rich people would tend to be selfish or have to be in control of the situation all the time. I wouldn't want to feel owned.
As long as they were taking care of their own financial needs money wouldn't come into it at all for me. | | | |
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03-23-2008
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#24 (permalink)
| | | I think the question is too complex to simply answer "rich are better" or "poor are better". I know both rich and poor who are wonderful sex partners and I know rich and poor that are total duds in the sex department.
Then it also has to do with your attitudes toward money and social position. If you're intimidated by wealth or social position, it's not going to be a good fuck no matter how skilled your partner is and of course the reverse is true.
What I've always found interesting is the quality of sex has very little to do with a persons income, social position or occupation. Some folks are hot and horney and others are just cold fish. | | | |
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03-23-2008
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#25 (permalink)
| | | I've thought about it and it would be a turn for to fuck a really rich woman. But she would still have to have all the traits that I'm attracted to in anyone else. And the whole,"they could be selfish", thing? Who cares! It's about sex! I would never let money play any role in it however. I would just be a little smugger than usual because I was fucking a richer, more socialy powerful person. It would probably be the same when I fuck the hottest girl around. And everyone else wanted her, but I got her. That always gives me a little boost. | | | |
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03-23-2008
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#26 (permalink)
| | | Having grown up in a wealthy family (don't bother looking in my pockets now  ), and having known a LOT of really rich people, I'd say that they're all across the boards as PEOPLE.
Did I fuck any really rich people?
Nope. I always preferred "real people" | | | |
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03-23-2008
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#27 (permalink)
| | | $225,00 a year. Not rich but doing very well....... | | | |
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03-23-2008
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#28 (permalink)
| | | Hmmmm. . . . not necessarily an interesting question, but it brings back something my mother (in anger regarding my father) frequently stated as her particular wisdom: "It's just as easy to fall in love with a rich person as it is to fall in love with a poor person." If she said it once, she said it "billions and billions" of times (her voice had an echo . . LOL!).
No. It doesn't matter. We rich old farts are just as good or lousy as the rest of the riff raff. (Actually, some of the riff raff are MUCH better. I used to be riff raff. No, wait, maybe I was riff and NOW I'm raff? I'm soooo confused.)
Coda: As far as F. Scott Fitzgerald's statement about "the very, very rich are different than you and me" consider the source. Great writer. Greater drunk. Everybody poops despite what some might claim. | | | |
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03-23-2008
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#29 (permalink)
| | | I have dated rich men and my ex-husband was very wealthy.
I found them to be jaded, selfish and self obsessed.
They were all small to average in the pants department. | | | |
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03-23-2008
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#30 (permalink)
| | | from my personal experience, a person's income doesn't matter how well they rank in the sack. about a year ago i was involved with one older man who held a high-power position in his career. although we never discussed it, i can tell he was banking at least six figures (nice suits, rolex watch, lived near the beach, just bought a boat, etc.). honestly, i didn't even know he was loaded until we went on a few dates. i didn't continue to pursue him for his money though, i went after him because he was sexy as hell and looked 10 yrs. younger than his age. to be honest, he was just as hot and horny any other man i've been with. the only pattern i noticed was that he could be very submissive and was willing to do whatever i wanted during sex. but he also had a very dominant streak to keep it balanced out as well. aside from the sex part, he always treated me with respect and never made me feel like he was too out of my league. | | | |
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