Rock Hard giving Oral, Semi for Sex???

Here's a couple ideas. It might just be a stamina issue. If you spend a lot of time on oral, he might not have much left for intercourse. Have him kegel.

It might just be performance anxiety. He doesn't have to do much for oral, but might lose it a bit if he feels he has to perform.

It might also be that he just needs the extra friction that naturally comes with hands, lips, teeth, etc during a blowjob.

Of course, if he can't really get a hard on, it looks like he could get a job in most porn. They have floppy cocks everywhere. Maybe its normal.

"Mental" is the key term. Sex is almost totally mental...only partly physiological. Without the former, the latter almost never occurs.

This is my erection problem to a tee. Not that it goes completely floppy inside someone, but as a gay buddy of mine said to me in pm here: "a vagina is sometimes like a too-soft pillow." That's not to say it's not pleasurable of course. It's just that the friction is a lot less compared to the hand and mouth action of a blowjob. So I'm going to go against the mental aspect of it and state that it is purely physical, because I honestly think it is.

I'm just like this. I usually have to go down to get really hard to begin with. It's because I'm submissive sexually. The thing to do is when he strts to get soft roll over or push him down and tell him to lick it up. Even better for me is if she is on top to climb up and sit on my face. Better still with a little verbal humiliation and/or teasing.

I do that. Often. I guess it makes sense as it's the only time I can adequately learn to understand the body itself in that capacity. Sex, penetrative intercourse, is nothing more than a chore.

Can't speak for the ladies, but I am accepting offers...

I'm realizing this is true for some men.

I'm not dating either of these guys any longer. But the face sitting think would have definitely worked for one of them, he was very into my vag and ass pressed into face.

Actually, he would get *rock* hard immediately even when teasing him about riding or, his fave, talking about how I am so wet it would be dripping off his chin. Sigh, he was fun.

Stamina wasn't the issue. If a person can eat pussy in ten different positions for hours, twenty minutes of sex won't kill him.

They were both bottoms. The second one was nervous and needed coaxing. The first one just preferred licking pussy and ass over fucking. Well, unless reverse cowgirl was involved, because he liked to watch himself sliding in and out and sticking a finger in my butt. TMI? Probably, but I don't care, haha.


Really?
You're not the only person who feels this way. I have a childhood friend who does not like penetration at all, not even tampons. She is very sexual and loves to receive and give oral, just nothing inside other than fingers. I guess her husband must be similar to you, preferring oral to intercourse.

What you described doesn't really happen for me, but a pussy in my face is probably the easiest and fastest way to make me hard.
Though, I could understand why some men would be like this and suggest it's perfectly normal/natural.

Well, also, oral gives me more stimulation too. Throat fucking is about the only thing that can very easilly cause me alot of pleasure. Maybe he is desensitized?

I know masterbation over time has made me desensitized to some degree, even though I use lube.

You're right. From now on, no questioning of "no recip" oral!

They both were not into receiving head.
I do know one, the ass guy, jerked off about twice a day.

What's the problem here??

Ride his face, talk dirty to him, and when he is rock hard and you are ready play bronco buster on his cock, shoving your panties in his mouth as necessary.

The only problem is that you might get bored with this after a while.