Penetration problems

The level of intimacy has built over the past week or two with a girlfriend of mine. We have tried to have sex a couple of times, but with little to no success. When I try to penetrate her, I am only able to get the head of my penis inside and almost nothing more. I am close to average in terms of size and girth. She is a virgin, but I don't really know if that holds any bearing at all.

Any tips or advice on what I can do to help me penetrate her completely?

You need to take your time with her. It will all fall in place, work with her, get her wet, get some fingers in there. Enjoy it.

Yes, it does. First time may be difficult for many but not all girls. Sometimes for men too. I still remember my first time without condom. Although my girl was not a virgin I found the sensation on the uncomfortable side. Later tries went better.

Enjoy it while it lasts! Penetration will come with time. It is inevitable, unless for some reason she decides to give up (for example scared). In your place I would be much more busy with something else instead of seeking advice here (no offense intended, just trying to say there is no need to worry and just let nature to do its work).

Thanks for the kind words.

Here's what has worked for me in the past:

• lots of fingering, slowly adding an extra finger at a time (max I've done, 3)
• oral sex ... lots of pussy munching
• take your hard cockhead and rub it against her clit ... rub your head gently against her pussy lips and just slowly slip just the head between them, letting her know that she can have more when she's ready
• let HER take your cock and rub the head against herself, and control how quick or slow you slide in
• lots of lube
• porn
• alcohol or pot (not recommending, just saying)

good luck!

So where is the girls' input when somone needs it?

I'll probably get flamed for saying this, but it helps to get her drunk. At least pretty tipsy. (I mean this seriously.)

Push harder.

Only joking

That ain't right!

But to the OP, if you want to have a romantic evening before having intercourse, one glass of red wine would not only be sexy but get her relaxed.
By all means don't get her drunk....YOU WOULD BE MOVING TO THE BORDERS OF RAPE. I am glad you asked this question because it shows this young woman means a lot to you and you understand it is about mutual pleasure not just about your cock.

I think you already know I feel about you.

Cinnamon -- shall we show him what we're talking about?



(just having fun)

LOL a little sex education tape would not be a bad idea. You got the camera, let's show him.