to answer your question ...no. I am 55 yo and married for almost 30 yrs. when I was younger, the term player, did not exist with its current meaning, ladies man, playboy were the terms back then. back then i was somewhat shy, good looking, poor, thin and tall. so I wasn't a "clothes horse" for 2 reasons, too tall(they don't make fashions for tall or big people) and no money. But I was clean and a gentleman, polite. I didn't and don't abuse women. and I as I got older and not so shy, I started bedding down my dates, and the ladies passed the word around that I had 'something" worth checking out. and I took advantage of the situation and got my "dauber" wet. I did get a reputation as a "love'm and leave them" but I also had women do the same to me. it was not that uncommon for me to wake up in the am with one woman, and be bedding a different one that night. I enjoyed my fun, but I was looking for the "right" lady, not to see how much puss i could nail. | 
If you got "MAD SKILLS" I applaud you! 
