Sharing??? FOR THE LADYS ONLY!!!!!

Yes I have shared my husband and would again.

I have a different viewpoint than most, and a different lifestyle. I truly do not understand the need for monogamy in a relationship. I love my husband, he loves me, we are partners for life and having sex with someone else will not change that. It is something we both enjoy, our sex life, and it works for us.

Last time I posted something along these lines I was blasted by a few. So, I will repeat, multiple partners not only works for us, but enhances our sex lives and it is our choice.

I'm not against threesomes but I would never do any sort of sex act with a girlfriend of mine.

Why is it okay for you to have a threesome with your boyfriend and another guy, but not okay for your boyfriend to have a threesome with you and another woman? Seems like a double-standard to me.

If either of my partners wanted an MFM threesome, I'd happily participate. And not just for myself either, but because I want to see them sexually happy.


And if anybody ever says "quietguy is mine, and nobody else's", I'd leave that relationship. Only I own my body, but I share. I own my time, but I share. I own my life, but I share. And I only share with people who show consideration for me and others.

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Why is it okay for you to have a threesome with your boyfriend and another guy, but not okay for your boyfriend to have a threesome with you and another woman? Seems like a double-standard to me.

Because in the scenario the OP suggested the woman wouldn't stop at just sex. She would inevitably want more. Men are more likely to just have sex, enjoy the experience and move on.

If either of my partners wanted an MFM threesome, I'd happily participate. And not just for myself either, but because I want to see them sexually happy.

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And if anybody ever says "quietguy is mine, and nobody else's", I'd leave that relationship.

Then it's a good thing we aren't dating.

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Only I own my body, but I share. I own my time, but I share. I own my life, but I share. And I only share with people who show consideration for me and others.

If that works for you fine; but the truth is I am a serial monogamist. When I am having sex with a man I am not screwing around behind his back. I expect the same from him.

Agree with ALMOST all of the posts thus far. Truth be told, different strokes for different folks. I fall more to the conservative side. I would absolutely not enjoy, nor would I entertain, the idea of my wife fucking some other guy...and she would not relish the converse either. But that's us and our relationship. If it works for you, go for it!

Threesome only works in an EXTREMELY small percentage of stable relationships. Should mostly be considered if current significant other is a short term, or "not so serious" lover.

i bet you speak for your self and not your wife she would love a nsa 3some women are horny devils m8 you think what you like but when you get the feeling she wants more give me a buzz ill gladly help you fill her up

For me the a fmf would be out of the question not because I'm a homophobe but because I'm sexually demanding. It is hard to find a man who can keep up with me as it is.
Why would I be happy with half the attention from one man?

no...that can really derail a relationship quick. You don't have the same intimacy any more as a couple. Not to mention, torpedo your friendship.

My friends and I have a strict rule, we don't grab each other's men. then again, I'm not attracted to my gf's men.

that too... I'd get jealous to be honest.

this thread isn't asking my opinion (as a gay man), but i really like this response.

I don't know if it's ownership over him that is the issue. It's the intimacy that cannot be recovered or that you are distracted with another woman in the room. Also not just a stranger, a friend?

Too many emotional attachments are at risk in that scenario.

Uh, speak for yourself, please.

Both of my partners are not strangers, but very close friends. One for almost 20 years, and the other for over 2 years. And they are just as much in love with each other as they are with me. Indeed, I think our triad is much more stable and stronger than the original dyad. Each one of us complements the other two quite well. We even talk about how many years and decades together we may share as a triad. Don't know yet.


Furthermore, the intimacy with my original partner deepened as we both explored intimacy with our shared girlfriend. We learned a lot about each as we fell in love with her, and with each other. And going from 1 partner to 2 helped all of us develop better communication skills.

I would not go back to monogamy if somebody paid me.

Thanks. I find it odd that people would think that anybody else owns their body. Yet so many claim that their partner "belongs to them".

So NJQT thinks it's cool for her and two guys to have sex (i.e. her getting double portions of the pork sword) but not for her man (if she had one) to receive likewise in the pussy department.

Very fair and liberal-minded.

Any wonder she's alone?

Just a thought.

Plus she shouts in many colours.

We can read, harpy (sorry, meant to say baby) without the black/white-board presentation.