slapping/smacking her ass during sex?

I've obviously seen this done in pornos, but I've heard of a few women from this site who seem to enjoy a mild slap on the butt during sex/doggystyle.

I personally have no experience with this, so I was hoping to try to get the whole story from the rest of your guys and girls. Is it enjoyable? For the guy? Girl? How do you know when its appropriate?


I personally can't imagine ever hitting a female, especially while making love, doggystyle or otherwise. I can just see it going horribly wrong if I so much as attempted this maneuver on a lady!

Are there some girls who dont like this, too?

Slapping is not for everyone, don't worry if you or your girlfriend aren't that into it. You can always try it out and see if you like it - if you're insecure about what she likes, try asking (as you may freak her out if you suddenly appear in black leather pants, masked up, whip in hand... )

My gf likes it. It's not like an everytime thing though. Occasionally we get a little rough and she likes a little bit of hair pulling and ass slappin.

I guess I watch too much goddamned porn, but everytime I have gotten close to a girl I have slapped her with my dick...I am a virgin. They always lose interest.

my girlfriend has one of the most perfect asses i've ever seen. but we began our relationship only a moth ago so we are still learning each other preferences (and in order to learn more...we do it like there is no tomorrow..lol). Sometimes i hit her gently, i'm not sure if she likes it or not a bit harder yet...but she sure seems to enjoy when i fuck her hard in doggystlyle and i "slap" her with my own body/legs

just try to slap a bit...if she likes it increase the intensity :P



big butts are my sin... :P

my girlfriend loves when i smack her one on the ass, especially if she is riding me or if we're doing it doggy, and she also loves when I grab a big ol' handfull of her thick curly hair and pull back so i can nibble on her neck while we're doing it from behind.

but not all women like these things.

Seriously - just feel your way... If impatient (or unsure you can take a hint): Ask her what she likes!

lots of women like it.
you could talk about it or you could just try the lightest of slaps and see how she reacts.

your issues with hitting a woman...
i admire the atttude but there's a difference between lashing out and erotic spanking.
consent.
sex without consent is rape. striking without consent is abuse.
you can accept that she'll enjoy the consensual sex. the consensual spanking is no different.

Ok why do i manage to pick men who don't slap ass? I see this all the time in vids and i have to admit i'm a little jealous. I guess because i equate it when being incredibly excited. I've asked my husband of almost 10 years if he's ever had the urge to slap my ass and he said "Only when you're doing dishes"

I think it would pleasantly surprise the hell out of me if he did it. I suppose i'll have to settle with all the other great things he does and get over the fact that he isnt going to be slapping my ass!

My girlfriend likes her ass slapped, neck squeezed and hair pulled....anything that is high intensity.

it's probubly a good idea to ask before sex you know
just thinking
I sure like a girls ass tho
if she's hot

you know, after being with him a decade I don't think you would be out of line to request an ass smacking
to be honest, it is a little selfish of you to want your fantacy of him just 'knowing' you out of the blue w/out you telling him to infringe on his ability to give you pleasure
and yes I know that is every womans fantacy but believe me you don't REALLY want it cus I often know women better then they know themselves and all it does is make you uncomfortable around a man anyway
so get it right the hell out of your mind, tell him you want that ass smacked and trust me he'll do it

1. it is not every woman's fantasy. my current girlfriend (we've been together about a year) loves being smacked on the ass and I love doing it, especially when she's on top (i too love giving her a little swat on the booty while she's doing dishes ) and she has even asked me to slap her face once or twice but I haven't found the balls to really give her a good one. However, i tried to give my last girlfriend a little swat on the ass while we were doing doggy style, and she looked back at me and said DON'T YOU DO THAT.

2. Oh man, don't ever say you know a woman better than she knows herself. It's just arrogant to assume you know anyone better than they know themselves, and borders on misogynistic to say it about women.

It wasn't really impatience, I just need to work on listening skills. The first couple of times I got close to someone I missed my opportunity and they ended up cuddling with me, so I thought it would be funny to spank them with my dick.

I will do the asking thing next time I get a chance. Actually there was a time that went further for me and I didn't try to spank her with my dick at all. There was a lot more communication involved.

I just always thought it would be hotter to not say anything at all. If she just knows and I know and sex happens.